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I struggle with my quick headed nature. I will go back to military but I'm afraid I will be in a group of people I dislike and I'll say some offensive shit and it's going to ruin my career.

 

I guess age also helps. When I was like 18 I had no filter. Now when I'm bit older I have little bit more experience of life and I seem to understand that there are times when it's better to shut the fuck up.
By the way, what are your struggles?

 

Hi guys, it's great to be here. Nice to meet you. I am a 25 yo male, based in Canada, I feel like I have a lot of internal struggles that I am still not aware of but one that has been haunting me since I was 14 is PMO. Even though I have a girlfriend, we both come from a muslim background so there is no way to replace M with sex before we get married, and it will take some time before happening.... I am not an addict in the popular sense but I feel no different that addicts, I feel the urge to watch P and M twice a week approximately. But the ultimate trigger is stress, when I am trying to understand a concept, I automatically start stressing out which triggers my urge to PM especially when I get stuck. I tried to stop this shit many times in the past, I even stopped for more tham 10 months before starting again... I recently tried ro take my life in hands, I started going to the gym and stopped PMO. I am on a 71 days streak and I hope I will be able to keep it up.

 

Hey guys good to meet everyone of y’all. I’m also a military guy, been serving since 2013. Going through a marriage separation and eventual divorce right now due to my sexual immorality which started out from watching porn while I was not in her presence to actually committing infidelity. For me the biggest thing I have is how to not relapse and in steps like 1) refraining from watching porn again (which i’ve found easier to do due to the stressed state of mind I’m in) 2) avoiding self-gratification all together. This I struggle with more especially because I live alone. I’m 30 now, and coyote like you I do have a short fuse (kinda how I earned a callsign )

 

Do things slowly, with patience. Start with small things. If you want to clean the garage of your life then just start with moving out most unnecessary crap step by step.
Just make your bed, start doing cold showers, go for morning runs etc. I wish you best of luck!