Hey guys (and gals). Question for you all. I'm 19 here and have what is hopefully a long life ahead of me. Yet with my PMO addiction (currently at 4 days though!) I always felt like I had to 'work' on myself before I even talk to a girl. I feel like this is a bad mindset to be in since you can never be done developing. But at the same time I feel like its a good mindset since I want to be able to present myself to someone at my best. Anyone have any thoughts on this? Edit: Figured I'd toss in that Im currently also going through No More Mr Nice Guy as well as NoFap to help develop myself. I am aware I have a problem and I'm on the road to improving the things I want to improve on.