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The Road to Something Better

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by magojung, Nov 19, 2020.

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  1. magojung

    magojung New Fapstronaut

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    I am new here in this website but i study about NoFap and celibacy since a couple of months ago.

    I am a young guy but i started to watch porn since i have 11, and i became councious about my addiction nearly a year ago. So we can say that this thing is pretty much inside my brain. I decided to use this website because i tryed to stop PMO many times without succeed, but i tryed so many times that i feel that my addiction became much more weaker than before. Now my journey is easier because of my many failures that accumulated and became knowledge and than made the addiction weaker.

    I will not try to show you a different technique, but i will say to you that is reading this: NoFap, to me, became not just about quitting a bad habit, but this journey "WAS and IS" so hard that transformed me into something so much different than i was.

    So, people, try hard, and if you fail please try to learn why you failed and do not give up. This path will change you only if you embrace the change. And i know that i had times when i relapsed and messed up my "streak" and got so pissed of and afraid, that i could not even enjoy the week that i failed because i felt like i was a sort of failure. But now i see, so many failures led me too finaly see the light in the end of the tunnel, now i see that all i can change, and i am becoming the change. Failures are not failures, but only a symptom that you did not changed that much: relax and think, you did no failed but you just did not changed enough, time will help you with that but you have to want that change to happen.

    Aim to something greater than carreer or women, we have to aim to something with meaning. Life is so much more than we can see, life is greater than we think, do not hear your mind saying to you that life is just a meaninless thing, this is a lie that tied me up. Niilism is for weak persons that cannot bear the beatiful-but-hard burden of life.
     
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  2. Hey man, beautiful words, the truth! Thanks for your post, and best of luck on the rest of your journey!
     
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  3. magojung

    magojung New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you, best of luck for you too.
     
  4. One Eyed Owl

    One Eyed Owl Distinguished Fapstronaut

    Welcome to NoFap!!!
     
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