The Sperm Cell Retention Cycle and Female Attraction

True I have observed this in myself and my wife from both seeing and noticing and stories she’s told and things I’ve seen from other women noticing me etc. also I feel much better when I’m retaining and I really seem to flow well in a conversation even though on a good day i don’t care to say much

 

I would also throw 5 bucks at smell, on top of behavioral changes.

 

I've got the experience, that when im out of PMO and still have sex, then i have benefits like selfesteem, more energy, fluent speaking etc.

But only if i really retain the women attraction occurs. Suddenly women start to talk with me, laughing about stupid and bad jokes from me, touching me, i catch them starring at me,...

I am on NoFap/SR since 2017 and have countless circles. It is allways the same result...

I am really sad, that i've got this attention only with this cheat code

To be honest, i would give up sex and releasing if i got the chance to have a great beautiful women on my side, who is in total love with me and is craving to for my attention and companionship...

 

SR since 2017?

 

If I may ask, how do you practice retention in marriage?
Do you practice karrezza or you dont have sex at all?

 

I’m new to nofap. But I have a Psychology degree and a vasectomy(28yo, I’m 37 now).

I’m a good looking and charismatic guy and can attest to my own personal experience that it’s not the semen, but rather the testosterone level perceived by the women; as well as your own confidence level and perception of their behavior.

For example. I’ve had a vasectomy for a decade and the times that women hit on me the most is clearly when I haven’t fapped for a week. And I theoretically never lose my semen even when I’m PMO. Rather my drive and confidence level is what makes the difference.

I also have a naturally high test level (871 at 36 when I was falling everyday)
So I can personally say in my situation. It’s the mindset shift.

 

It's not a cheat code, it's the way we're meant to be.

 

you do lose semen you just dont lose sperm.

 

After my 4 month streak I found that everyone treated me better. Not just girls.

Could be any number of reasons why.

 

I also believe its the fertility thing. Everything in life is about procreation and the base level. So it makes sense we can tell, who is fertile and who is not - its the essence of survival. And we can call it how we want, beauty, attraction, it does not matter.

What matters is, that being highly fertile makes u highly desirable.

It goes with a bonus, that if u fertile, your mindset changes so you also able to get a woman - your traits change in a way you can attract a female and have sex with her.

Just be careful, it happende to me I attracted very beautiful girls I would not dream of 5 years ago. But guess what happens if you give her your semen..

 

This is a commonality with most NoFappers. I can attest myself to this. It's very strange. There's a lot to it. I'd say the benefits far outweigh the habit, so for that reason I keep at it.

 

animals even, they seem to treat SR men better...Once a ladybug flew down unto my hand, and I could keep her in the hand for a couple of miles walking in the street,she didnt fly away and I had to gently remove her and put on the soil

 

Maybe animals should practice SR?

 

99,999% of em do

 

By choice?

 

This is relatable. I was at a restaurant/lounge with a friend of mine and I received some flirtatious looks from a waitress. I also caught a woman sitting at an adjacent table checking me out, and then her friend checked me out as she walked past my table

 

I can relate. I did nofap for several times already from 1-4 week streaks and since years its always the same: After some time women look different at you, some even stare, some smile, some are just shy and look away as soon as you notice them, some play with their hair (present their pretty hair as sign of healthy fertile woman?). Nobody can beat nature, it's the way it should be we are still animals (esp women do have still natural instincts and senses). Last week i was in foodstore standing at checkout and there was a couple, the woman stared at me (from top to bottom) while i was putting my things on the checkout, i noticed her and smiled, she smiled back and her guy (bigger and probably even better looking then me) tried to not notice me, i saw she isnt happy with this man. I just kept standing and waiting with a smile on my face, she seemed shy / ashamed and it would be fantastic to know what she had running in her head. Such things happen definitely more often when im on nofap, i mean women staring at me and noticing me.

 

very interesting thanks for sharing. @Pleasedoanythingelse that means it’s not just the sperm necessarily. it’s probably hormonal and also your nervous system becomes weakened when you O even if you don’t ejaculate. The book “Onanism” from 1800s claimed that O “shatters the nervous system”

It is as you mentioned likely also psychological and mental too.

Yes, this has been realized by countless others long before you lol but cool that you came to the same conclusions