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The START 2021 STRONGER Challenge [CLOSED]

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Deleted Account, Sep 3, 2020.

  1. peglegb88

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    Hi is this challenge still open? If so I'm in, need to get my shit together.
     
  2. Teutão

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  3. Yes. Adding you to the Platinum Tier. The over 100 days cutoff has passed but you can still hit 90 and feel great come Jan.
     
  4. Tough break. I hope your health is okay, with concussion, etc. I gave you a strike, but you can still hit 90 days so I didn't change the tier. 1 strike max, so you're good.

    I hope you get your stuff figured out and rebound quickly.
     
  5. thikk

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  6. ToMMy.H

    ToMMy.H Fapstronaut

    Hey Guys!
    I am still clean!
    I got a bit sloppy and checked in only in september deathmatch.
    Today is my day off so I will keep myself busy as much as possible.
     
  7. The_Director

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    It is truly a miracle that I did not use porn last night. I was about to go to sleep and got the usual desire to look at porn on my phone. This is how 90% of my porn use has happened. I thought that I would have to either leave this group immediately after joining, or write that I used porn. I guess this thought was enough to push me over the edge and lay down to sleep. It's day 4 today.
     
  8. ToMMy.H

    ToMMy.H Fapstronaut

    @The_Director Great job man! Keep going!
    I can recommend turning off the data on phone -> I try to not to look at any screen 1hour before I go to sleep -> its the best
     
  9. Dragydof

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    Day 5, urges have been really weird the last days. Simply committing to the choice to stop made them less powerfull
     
  10. Bethelightinmyheart

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    Neighbours driving med crazy...those people drive me insane...soon a year of banging, drilling, knocking, just noises all the time...even today, a Saturday! It is inhumane..

    Feels good to be mad though..yeah..bring on the "toxic masculinity" amigos.
     
  11. I got you bro. Added to THE PLATINUM tier because day 100 has passed. Best of luck to you... I hope this is the breakthrough you're looking for.
     
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  12. Reading a lot of positive reports this morning. Lots of us are fighting the urges back - most attributing it to the challenge. Imagine, if after 90-100 days clean, how much more in control we'll be to not have to feel like we are fighting for our lives every single day...but managing the simple steps of our plan to stay clean. Managing the risks, staying clean, intentful living.

    That's what next year could be for us. We need only make a few hard choices from now til then.

    I'm all in....and I want you to be too.
     
  13. Steppingintotheunkown

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    No more laying down on my bed with my hand down my pants jerking off to some kind of degenerate chatroom roleplay. I turned 30 this year, im not brining this filth into my 30's. I will never be in my 30's again, so I need to savour each day and have the best decade I can
     
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  14. Steppingintotheunkown

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    I went 150 days without PMO, that was my longest streak. I need to get back there, that was a few years ago and around that time I was getting regular 70+ 50+ Day streaks, I can not describe how good it felt, life was amazing. This past 24 months or so have been different, iv been relapsing after two or three weeks or 10 days or less to chatrooms. So life is better than it was because I'm not up all night watching horrific porn, reading depraved erotic material and masturbating 2-3 a day everyday. But I'm indulging in chatrooms and masturbstion every couple of weeks and the odd nfsw picture too, this has been for about two years and life is not the same as it was when I was getting regular huge streaks. I will make sacrifices in order to get back to how I was a few years ago during my golden nofap years.
    This past two years iv been kidding myself
     
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  15. tonyk1982

    tonyk1982 Fapstronaut

    BC - thanks for leading this group. It's making a difference for me. And reading about our peers is a source of strength.
    I saw the most outrageous thing at the supermarket today. An absolute showstopper lolita that was right out of a P site. My friends it sent me spinning and when I got back to the car I was freaking out and of course got the phone in hand and had to direct myself here cuz I was about to go to a P site.
    You all should know that it is this community that kept me straight. Whew. That was close. Stay strong everyone.
     

  16. YES. Another victory. This is how we slay the dragon. One cut at a time. One strategic move, after another. Dodging attacks, counter attacking.. using strengths and avoiding our weaknesses being exploited.
     
  17. You're welcome, but, you guys are helping me more than I can ever offer back to you.

    And so we advance. One.More.Day.
     
  18. Teutão

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    Man, 150 days is pretty amazing! Be happy because you know what you can do.
     

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