Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Deleted Account, Mar 11, 2019.

Do you have what it takes to become a Super Saiyan?

  1. I don't know yet, i'm gonna start training now!

  2. Yes, but it will be hard.

  3. Not only Super Saiyan, but i can go even beyond. AAAAAAAAAAAHHH!!!

  4. I can only reach the level of an Elite Warrior, nothing more than that.

  5. I can't even beat Yajirobe, i'm a failure. ;(

  1. MJ Warrior 93

    MJ Warrior 93 Fapstronaut

    To be honest, I tried to get rid of my thoughts of girls I find online. What I can learn to avoid it is to stay busy with many activities I can do.
    theonlyway, Baki Hanma, Ūruz and 5 others like this.
  2. Redemptionisrequired

    Redemptionisrequired Fapstronaut

    Checking in Saiyan's!

    8 Day Free of PMO

    Quick check in.

    Keep training
  3. stronaut2021

    stronaut2021 Fapstronaut

    @Redemptionisrequired , @DRAGON_ thank you for the warm words. I feel much better today, and I think that by Monday, I'll be full of energy.

    I'll take some lines to explain a bit. I have suffered from allergic asthma since my childhood. It stopped in my teens and twenties and came back in the mid of 30 until now. Now I live in a four seasons country, and basically, I am happy from the mid of spring to the mid of fall (including summer), and I feel sick from mid-fall to mid-spring (including winter)

    But for the first time and with the help of my wife, I went to an allergist, who made the diagnosis that I am entirely allergic to dust acarus. Then she offered me a vaccine. I needed to take an injection monthly for five years to finally get rid of this shit that ruined a significant part of my childhood. I'll take my first dose in about one month if everything goes well.

    BTW Day 76 is only 14 days for the reboot. I think I will start a reverse counter to keep my motivation.

    Stay Strong
  4. Ūruz

    Ūruz Fapstronaut

  5. Baki Hanma

    Baki Hanma Fapstronaut

  6. Redemptionisrequired

    Redemptionisrequired Fapstronaut

    Checking in Saiyan's!

    9 Day Free of PMO

    Many decisions to be made over the coming days, although I am feeling calm overall. I will have to spend some time this weekend to think things through in meditation. I did have some outbreaks of stress, but not unmanageable and faced it properly. The decisions I take over the next months may have quite the impact on my career.

    Today I would like to mention a few words about comparisons. Brothers, do not compare yourself to those who may seemingly be ahead, rather aim to learn from what brought that far in said field. If you spend your days comparing yourself to another, you will ALWAYS find someone who is better than you in a particular field. To bring it back to nofap, say you are someone who relapses every 4 days and that is currently your baseline and you compare yourself to someone who continuously has 60, 90 120 day streaks, you may start to attack yourself wondering why you can't achieve those numbers. The healthier mentality is to learn and ask questions from this person, take what is useful to you and improve you streaks. Measure your progress only by who you are today, in comparison to who you were yesterday.

    I'll catch you all on Sunday.

    Keep training!

    @stronaut2021 My pleasure brother and happy to hear that. Remember 90 days is just a baseline/standard reboot. The really changes come after that, consistent practice and efforts into the habits that carry you forward.
    Last edited: Jan 27, 2023
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  7. It's good to hear that you are doing well.
    I also have same the same disease, same symptoms and allergies. Life partly sucks because of it. I feel for you man. As you said you experienced it less in ur 20's. It's same in my case as well. I've not experienced an asthma attack since some time now. Its on the low. But still because of allergies I get sick pretty easily.
  8. I totally agree with you man. I've always compared myself with others and was always feeling low. But I don't do that frequently now. Life's much better. But it still happens sometimes. Pretty interesting message dude. Informative as well.
  9. Lexro84

    Lexro84 Fapstronaut

    Day 57
    Mood 6/10 & Energy 5/10

    Not sleeping well again: make the 6,5 - 7 hours but wake up at 5:30/6AM and cannot fall asleep. Feel headache / tired and groggy the rest of the day. Just did a meditation session of 30 min that really helped a lot. Did fall asleep a little but glad to feel better. No physical porn urges, but some light frustration on the mental part: had date 3 with a girl and we hitted of quite nicely with the kissing and hugging. Thought she wanted to go the whole way but she did not. Now haven't heard from her for almost a week (did send a message on Wednsday, no response). On to the next right? Making sure to not relapse by posting this message. Only 5 days left for the 2 month mark!
  10. stronaut2021

    stronaut2021 Fapstronaut

    Well, stay strong. Anything wrong with you, probably she realized that was cheating her fiancé or husband. This happened to me we had 2 dates and at the third she never appeared and I couldn't communicate anymore with her. Three months later I received the news she was just married with her 4 year boyfriend.
    Last edited: Jan 28, 2023
  11. theonlyway

    theonlyway Fapstronaut

    Day 10

    So many wise word being said here - I’m taking notes to it all.
  12. baka_yaro

    baka_yaro Fapstronaut

  13. Ūruz

    Ūruz Fapstronaut

  14. stronaut2021

    stronaut2021 Fapstronaut

    You can create a journal thread in this site and take the notes. Check mine near my avatar
  15. stronaut2021

    stronaut2021 Fapstronaut

    I received an email from Mark Queppet that I think it worth to be shared here:

  16. Baki Hanma

    Baki Hanma Fapstronaut

  17. 109 days free of PMO.
    I heard that a single, pretty girl at work finds me attractive.
    I was happy with that and had some healthy sexual imagery about her.
    Unfortunately that resulted in a wet dream yesterday.
    I will continue staying away from fantasy even if it is healthy and appropriate. I can't quite handle it yet.

    Another thing. I have been hurt many times by having fantasies and dreams about girls that were not realistic.
    I would imagine how life could be with them. (In this case imagining how sex with her would be when I have only heard a rumor in reality).
    Reality always finds a way to reassert itself. Better find a way to stay close to it.
  18. theonlyway

    theonlyway Fapstronaut

    Day 0

    I relapsed.

    And you always feel so bad about it. Like a total failure.

    But i know why i did it, and how to change my behavior in situations like that to stay on track.
    One of the things i have realised is that i need to go look at my lidt with all the reasons why i have to go through the pain. All the reasons nofap i worth it.
    I hope and think this will give some added clarity in the critical moment.
    Also other thing like always having a plan of what to do, so i donkt have to think about that and get tempted.

    So i dont despair too much.

    Although, when i know how much staying clean means to me, and how pmo is hurting me, but i still relapse, i do wonder if staying clean is even possible.
    But it is. I know it. Many have done it. But once, they also struggled, just like us.

    Our streaks will become longer and longer. The urges weaker and weaker, and fewer and fewer.
    But its not that we will never have urges. They will always be there. There is no such thing as breaking free. Our porn addiction will always be a part of us. We cant pretend that it one day wont be.

    But we can stop it from hindering us in living our lives.
    We can stop it, and start living.

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