The temptation to see an escort

My first thought would be to judge you for wanting that BUT I WONT. Theres temptation in seeing a hot looking women that will have sex with you for $$$ . I have been in those shoes myself thats why i dont judge no more . Kind of reminds me of strip clubs there fun when you have money but by the time you leave you feel empty and broke.

 

There is a whole discussion on guys trying to quit escorts! Maybe go read what they wrote.

 

Yes I had the fantasies of visiting an escort too. And I FINALLY did it aswell

They became an addiction and I used to visit them 2_3 times a week

You should stop this fantasy as soon as possible

 

Don't do it... You will only increase your loneliness and your misery!

 

Try it if you want to feel worthless.
You meet with a woman who has absolutelly no interest in you. She grabs the cash she leaves. Think that: she sees you like a slave, not only do you satisfy her but also give her free money. And she doesn't even have to connect to you in any way.
Think about the situation but with flipped sides.
If you could get a tousand woman, who all even pay for sex, would you even care about their personality after the 1000th one?
Also good way to risk some diseases , and also you will have a dirty secret you have to keep from real woman, since else they will be disgusted by you.
Not only because they fear they get some illness from you, but also because they will think the same as the hooker. That you are worthless and can't get a good relationship with woman. Why would they bother with you then?

 

I dont know where you are from but I am from a pace where Prostitution is legal and quite prevalent. Dont visit escorts, aside from the health aspects, the feeling after is the exact same feeling you have after busting a nut to porn. Plus you wasted money. Also you are just using a womans body, without any emotional connection, there really is no upside to it. Sadly have visited certain establishments and I tell you I regreted it every time.

 

I don't think is a good method to release your temptations. As another user in this thread said, escort could become a drug and worsen your mind state (and not only that: Escorts are very expensive, so your wallet will lose out too).

 

Say you meet an escort, and you do the deeds, Maybe not much foreplay since most of the time she wants it over with, or isn’t wanting to let it drag on too long, if she has a motel room she probably wants more business to make up for the cost of the room.
When your done maybe you want to go again but she asks for more money.
You don’t know what you will get yourself into. Your hopes that escort is going to satisfy your needs may not come true. And some get trapped looking to find the perfect escort.
So you can get hooked into it. They all just want money that simple.
You just have to remember anytime in the future you now have something you have to live with for the rest of your life.
If your married or in a relationship heck no!

My advice as a sex addict, don’t do it.
It’s hard for sex addicts to quit.

 

Be careful what you mind is thinking. Is it you or is it your addiction?

Sex with a non sex worker is way more satisfying then an escort. Most don’t do it for the fun, they want the money, they act.

I lost my virginity to an escort. Worst decision I ever made. Best advice I can say as a sex addict don’t do it.

 

You may find your thrilled up until the point of meeting the escort being hooked on the sites. That’s all part of the addiction.

It sounds like it’s in your mind. That’s not a good sign just saying.

 

Yep fixed it thanks, it’s Bit late tonight for me lol

 

My answer would not be different than other people here. As a Porn and sex addict don't do it. It would be the same as looking at Porn and masturbating. I tried a lot of escort and it could feel nice at the moment but then you feel like crap. You're basically lowering your self esteem. The more you get into escort the deeper you're digging your grave. It's like the process of escalation when ur looking at Porn. Here with escort you'll want to sastify all your fantasies... You'll always be craving for the perfect one. It's really the same when you're looking for the perfect video. After it's really hard to get back to real woman. Your mind will try to rationalize saying that they are real woman and at least it's real but it's not. Bottom line is your loosing your money, your self esteem and your dignity. Don't let your primal brain taking over your rational brain.