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The walk of shame.., relapse

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Huggan73, Mar 17, 2015.

  1. Huggan73

    Huggan73 Fapstronaut

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    Well, i made my 30 days and then went into a pit. I relapsed! i didnt want to reset my counter! I was coming up with all miriad of excuses why my counter didnt need to be reset.

    Then i didnt want to come in here and fess up... But here i am ... After a week of weekness, lack of willpower, no self control... This PM controls me.. And i dont want it to..

    Time to dig in again...getting married in 30 days, i want to have a handle on this by then..

    Any tips would be appreciated
     
  2. HeisenbergBlue

    HeisenbergBlue Fapstronaut

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    Hi. The next time you want to play with your willy, come to the forum first and ask for help, dont play with it and then come to the forum, we are here to support you.

    You have failed, ok, Dont dwell on it, your getting married now in 30 days, possibly one of the biggest days in your life. You want to be vibrant on that day, energised and at your best. You are going to marry someone you truly love and cherish, do this for her as well as yourself.

    Well done on 30 days, now its time to streak forever. Do you really want to trade your development and success in for 5 more seconds of glory? Ill answer that.. Of course not. PM does not control you, YOU control you. I look forward to you coming here in 30 days giving your story on such a wonderful wedding day and how PM is going to stay the hell of your life!

    Good luck and have a wonderful day Sir

    Heisenberg
     
  3. PrevCDM

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    Make that rebound count. Get back on the horse immediately. Take away what you can from the fall. It'll be like info on what led you to relapse. Avoid that thing in the future at all costs. Install a P blocker!
     
  4. NoneForMeThanks

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    Im gonna be a little harsh on ya here brother. Im not gonna PeDiddle around the bush. Its only because I want you to succeed though....

    Youre about to get married. Youre about to have a honeymoon. Youre about to dedicate the rest of your life to a woman, who I assume youre in love with..... Now, What the F*CK are you doing watching porn? Honestly? Why??? Why in the world would you ever need, or want, to touch your own junk, especially while watching some greasy film, EVER again? Get off that shit dude. Give yourself to your wife. Fully. Wouldnt your marriage be SO much more satisfying knowing your mind is P free, your junk is fully wired to her, and all your love and sexual feelings get channeled through her exclusively? That's what I would hope. And thats probably what your wife hopes for too. Do it for your marriage, for the love of your wife, and for your potential future kids. Can you imagine having kids and still trying to deal with a PMO addiction? Screw that. Be the role model they deserve. Now is the time to get this shit tied up dude. For good.

    Get at it.
     
  5. Huggan73

    Huggan73 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks Team.. Appreciate the honesty.
     
  6. NoneForMeThanks

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    I dont mean to overstep my bounds my man.
    Sometimes I feel like its my place to be a little too upfront, even when it may not be. I just want you and your wife to be SO happy and successful dude. Were all addicts, and I know quitting is HARD. But what im trying to say is that you should have extreme motivation to quit! Make that honeymoon night INSANE my brother. Give your wife what she deserves, and that is all of your adoration, love, and affection for the rest of your lives! Not "most of it" if you get what I mean.

    Im behind you 100%.

    -NONE
     

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