There is HOPE for You too.. Every One can change

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by [email protected], Nov 12, 2020.

  1. quit@porn

    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    Hello friends,

    I was thinking, If I should really write here in success stories section or not! Here legends wrote about 2 years, 90 days, semen retention and 500 days and many many things. And here I am just completed my 30 days that too after long time. Then I thought leave about others, my story is my story, even if one person feels connected to it and could feel that, he must do / keep doing Nofap then, this exercise is worth it.

    Background:
    I am 31 yrs old. Pmoing from last 12 years. But, exposed to high speed easy access porn from last 5/6 years( 4 G jio net launch in India).

    Right now, I am struggling with my career and trying to bring things in order.

    Why I started these
    I was great student in my school days, but, my performance deteriorated immensely from my puberty. I was shy, studious introvert guy. I was was not knowing many things about sex and porn etc. But, when I first saw porn video ( stolen CD from relative) it was really disgusting. I broke away that CD and decided to never watch it again,. But slowing slowing I stated the taste for it and I started watching more of it, with my introvert nature that started to have more server effect on me.
    I performed pathetically in my board exams. I took admission in average college and I performed pathetically there as well.

    Today I can figure out that craving for sex and hidding in addiction of PMO was one of the main reason. Because studies means tension and if I had tension I used hide in den and PMO. This was like run away mechanism for me. With progressive time my taste started to change * trigger warning* initially soft porn or images bacome more and more vulgar. Liking for nasty stuffs and general increased like steps videos and many nasty things. I always felt guilt when I always Orgasmed. But this execise and it's frequency only increased. From 1 times in weeks to 2/3 times a days...
    Most importantly I was unaware and innocent about this addiction. I used to think it's way too normal and all of us does it. Really many many many guys does it even today without knowing it's side effect.

    This is the reasons many people are facing huge sexual problems and problems in there relationship.
    What made me do Nofap:
    As Usual as with many guys here,
    I was with my girl and she is damm hot. We had many video chats and had shared intimacy. But, the ways I used to have boner with videos and chats with hers, that was no where to be seen when I was with her in bed.

    It was shoking and very very weared feeling for me. She handled it very well. It gave me real shock. I shared this with few friends. With this search I came to know about Nofap and addiction of porn.

    This was the best decision of my life. Today I completed 30 days. I specifically want to advice to young guys that they must must not fall pray to this addiction and have faith in the process.
    I will write afterwards now.
    Thanak for being patients
     
  2. rahulkumar

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    Appreciate you on your 30day success on NoFap journey. This is Rahul from India and also aged 31 ,married recently,sufferung from 13 years- you and I have same problem and I am on my journey to achieve 30day strek, thanks for creating a hope in me to achieve 30days NoFap
     
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    @rahulkumar
    Hi rahul, thanks buddy,
    I know what it feels, but, right now I am observing huge positive changes , share things with your partner, and improvement will be fast, big big no to porn and if possible then go for hard mode

    There is success story of a married guy, that may help you
     
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  5. Yes! Some people post after less than 30 days and that is not good. But what you did, 30 days, is still a success!! Its a big success. Congratulations. It feels almost impossible to me, but I know I will also make it soon. I want better health, and a better mind, and a better life.
     
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    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    It took me almost one and half year yo reach first full 30.but, yes consistent efforts matters and it's worth doing.... Keep going buddy, it's really worth doing
     
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  8. Good luck! Well done on making it to 30 days, the first few days were really hard I found. Keep it up, keep moving forward.
     
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    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    Thanks buddy .... Have u rebooted ?
     
  10. Not yet, no. Making progress though.
     
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  11. quit@porn

    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    Okey buddy we are both sailing then.... Keep fighting like the spiderman
     
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  13. RockyRocky

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    Keep Going Brother.
    God bless You
     
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    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    Thanks buddy :))
     
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  15. RockyRocky

    RockyRocky Fapstronaut

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    ✒️From 2017 i am trying to quit.
    ✒️Now i can control myself
    Bro how's your sex life now?
    Some improvements?
     
  16. quit@porn

    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    I am not getting man what r u saying/ asking? Pls b elaborate
     
  17. quit@porn

    [email protected] Fapstronaut

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    Bro, I have seen improvement, I have started or now I get naturally attracted to women in our surrounding that was not the case previously, and previously I could not see anything bus hot asses of women ie comodifing them to extreme.

    Now I see women do feel some attraction themselves in me it due to nofap or not I can't claim.... and my dick resond very well now.... So overall things are good. Regarding sex life I havent been on bed since then as I am on streak. But, I don't think that I will have problem hopefully when I will do my 90 days in jan I will do it with bash.... Haha... Hw r u btw
     
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    In
    Short there are many improvement... What abt you? Have u not noticed changes??
     
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  19. RockyRocky

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    Glad to hear that.
    I failed too many times bro but never gave up
    16 Nov started then saw some web series on 21 nov but no Masturbation no Orgasm
    Hard mode Started Again from Today 22/11/2020
    I don't want to any kind of sexual content
    no erotic scenes,no erotic movies,pics.
    I learned a lot in this journey.
    You fail 10000 times but at 10001 time You'll Succeed.
    So Never Give Up is the Rule and Discipline is the Key
    Do you Speak Hindi bro??
     
  20. RockyRocky

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    Little Improvements buddy.
    PMO for 7 Years.
    My Recovery will take Time
     
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