Thinking of hiring an escort...

What about the strip club you can ask a stripper out a date and take her shopping that's legal .

 

Not trying to be funny at all if you like her why wouldn't you want to buy her something or show her a good time . And a stripper probably makes more money than you or me so why should she even need you or me to buy her something . As far as disease true but you could get that from any women just wear a condom. It just comes down to this and that is connection. Connection is even better than sex . Having a women or just any person cry in your arms and tell you that they had the best day they have had in a long time is freaking awesome.

 

Well I rarely go to church these days however I used to go a lot. I don't believe everyone in church has one thing in common. Plus just because someone is at church does not mean they are Christian.

I am referring to quiet beaches, or go in the wilderness for a hike. There are many beaches out there that are really quiet and barely or don't have other people there.

Have you discussed with your doctor about your anxiety problems?

 

No sorry I am serious I was giving advice forgetting that you don't have the experience . One thing though is the only thing you can to is be fearless start small. Practicing nofap will give you the drive . Have you ever felt hungry I mean really hungry after fasting you could eat the most simplest food and it taste like the best food you ever had . But if you had all your favorite foods all the time any time we'll it wouldn't taste so good . This is what pmo does it fills your need, stop feeding your need and you will naturally seek out another way but be careful it could make you a little nuts so go easy on your journey and the most important thing to remember is to be kind to yourself along the way . Nerd introvert extrovert no such thing those are all lables & identities but we are all definitely one thing and that is a piece of life and it is up to you on how you want to experience it .

 

There's a lot of misconception on what social skills are. We come up with crazy terms like 'social anxiety' because we like to make life complex. Reality is, women aren't attracted to social skills, they're attracted to confidence, being content with who you are and unapologetic. Social skills are an insignificant bi-product. If anything, women prefer guys who dont jump through hoops, juggle balls and talk, talk, talk. That's boring. They want someone who's just curious about them. That's it! Not some poser. They want a sincere guy who's genuinely interested.Women need to be recognized.

 

I 've got to say, I am impressed with your taste in clothes. Women love a sharp dressed man. That's a great starting point. It tells a woman you take pride in yourself and creates interest. Dressing well puts you ahead of 90% of the dudes who wear hoodies,crocs and piss stained cargo shorts and think they look cool. Think of our friends in the animal world. The males are bright and colorful, the females dull and inconspicuous. The females are attracted by most interesting looking males [I.E. well dressed].
You've gotten a lot of great social advice from the other people on this board. My advice, go with what you
know. Women love clothes and shopping. They also like when men notice what they are wearing and are eager for sincere compliments. It's a great way to start a conversation.
Most of all...quit the PMO. No good can come from it.

 

I just don't get it you dress good have 6 pack and you are over 6ft tall and no attention ? You must be the one to persue without attachment . Also you seem to be on a high horse get over yourself it's not helping you. Never look up to anyone or down just look at them . Your over dressing to, sounds like you have a compulstion . Dress like this https://images.app.goo.gl/bDgbJ2mWUMGm9pq9A

 

Yeah, also started to dress more classic and fashy this year and the response is immediate. Even though I live in Sweden I can still draw in some attention being 6 feet 4 and around 215 pounds, dressing well along with this makes an impression. Then the fact that they all, or atleast 80 procent are, crazy toxic feminist and narcissists is another chapter I suppose.

Yeah, well over dressing is not an issue if you keep in mind the slobs that are out there today, that is a good signal to keep them on arms length, so id say keep over dressing just for the sake of leaving crappy as deadbeats behind.

Maybe he is getting some attention, just not from the caliber of women he is drawn or attracted to? Personally I look like a stud and always dress great but women today are trained to be the opposite of a loving, affectionate and compassionate being so only time you are gonna get lots of validation is if you look exceptionally great or if you are in a relationship and the girl is scared of you bailing out or sense you are losing interest. The game today is just setup for utter failure for guys that do not take the redpill and dare to go through a excruciating process of letting go of foolish, blue pilled conditioned beliefs and norms. Particularly attention in this day of age comes so much harder since people are too busy being approved themselves and with that comes terrible outcome independence for guys with low self esteem looking for validation and approval.

Remember this word gents; outcome independence, the tower of Steve...

 

That's the excuse guys like to make so they can stop trying. The only girls that want a Tom Hardy or wealthy are the one's who dont value themselves much and live in a superficial reality where everything, including their boyfriends is nothing more than an accessory to wear. No one really wants those girls anyway, at least not in the long term, not even Tom Hardy.

 

Yes true now one is a perfect match and that women that is married to the successful rich guy for security is going out and getting boinked by some horny charming guy while she's out with her girlfriends because she is trapped in her marriage for security. Eeveryone wants to be free deep down security is not happeness . That's why I say love hard as you can and be brave not to get attached . Don't be a slave to the boobies .

 

Okay, say if she finds an 'attractive guy' but then has a conversation with him, realizes he's got nothing between his ears, not ambitious and everything that comes from his mouth is a cliche, he's not unique or interesting...how 'attractive' do you think he'd be then?

Say if she finds a rich guy, moves in with him but realizes he has no heart, he's cold blooded, cant engage emotionally with him, how attractive will that make him?

Attraction is not just about money or looks and as I said, the girls who do have that as the only criteria are not really evolved human beings and not worth the effort.

 

I believe you might be stuck at finding a unicorn or believe they exist, I hope you dispell this soon enough. Why would girls these days even make attempt at being what you describe as evolved human beings as they get promoted with little effort at every given workplace, given free attention and get worshipped on social media every day with no interruption to the onslaught of hungry, desperate beta orbiters p*ssy begging 24/7. Those girls may have existed prior to the for society and civilization detrimental sexual revolution of the late sixties. When you understand female nature you simply can't pedestalize them, it can only lead to something bad down the road.

 

I'm not saying pedestalize them. If fact, the opposite. Yes, they got needy, horny guys throwing roses at their feet but most girls dont want that, most want a challenge otherwise it's no fun.
Expressing interest in her has got nothing to do with neediness but rather genuine curiosity.

What I'm saying is it's the spirit of women that should be your obsession, not just one woman. In fact, if you can, date 2 women. If you do that you'll find girls will find you more attractive. 1) because they have to chase you and 2) because you're not trying to get anything. Just dont get caught!

Women are passive creatures but when we worship them they have the control. That's not natural. Which is why that sort of arrangement is doomed to fail.