Thinking of quitting nofap....

This is a sad post. But I'm thinking of quitting the nofap community. I've tried this site back since 2018 when I started going to the gym and changing myself.

I had a few good streaks some almost two weeks and some that have lasted 20 days almost. Unfortunately all ends well from a bad break up? Last October I was confessed to from a sincere text message only to be a promise being broke after a month. I felt torn from this woman for quit a while and I pray every day that I can forget about her. After that I couldn't get any clean streaks and yes I was back to watching some porn. Currently I'm only having 1-2 day streaks to be honest. I believe I'm in need of some more help. I don't feel this rush in my Solar Plexus like I used to and its been difficult this year as I was put in the hospital as I could of even had the virus when it just started. My symptoms were pretty bad.

I'm not sure what to do or tackle this anymore. I was in quarantine leave from work for about a month and that didn't help either. My week spot is the afternoons and evenings now. Mornings I can fly by them but... my mind wonders during afternoon/evening times. I'm not interested in talking to many woman at work anymore especially some cute ones that I see. Mainly because I know for a fact almost all of them are already taken.

My passions are low for creating music and to play video games witch I don't do anymore rarely.

I've been looking for AC partners but no one ever response back from time to time. I've been reading 90+ story's but I'm not getting a motivation boost anymore.

I feel I'm at a stopping point right now and a flat line is happening. Not the good recovery flat line but one I can't get past right now. I wish I could find a group of people that would support me here and be good friends with.

Today I will do my best to try and succeed. A Saiyan is struggling..

 

Post this to the ac group forum, Im sure you will get some replies, people here tend to be friendly. If I can help im here too.

The truth is, quiting nofap solves nothing. And nofap by itself doesn't solve anything either.
The point is, that YOU have to solve those problems you have. It's just a training to do so. The trick is, that people with complex problems cannot solve those problems with one blow. Feeling depressed , having no motivation for woman, hobbies anything doesn't just "go away" easily. Since you can't fix those, nofap gives you a simpler goal. But to reach that goal, you have to change yourself for the better each day. By the time you reach a good long streak in nofap your life quality will get better too this way. So the point is, not to concentrate on nofap too much , because eventually you will fail. Or even if you don't fail , you won't get anything out of it. Change old habbits you don't like . No motivation for video games? No problem! They get you nowhere and they cause addiction aswell. Plus you can't talk about them to anyone especially girls. Get interesting hobbies, start writing, start hiking start learning photography. Things you can share with others, things that make you more interesting, out of the ordenary. Some say, nofap makes you better with woman, why? because woman get a TON of attention from men, boring men, who only want to have sex with them. While on nofap you avoid being too sexual (so that takes out the "creepyness" factor) but also you get new hobbies that make you more interesting. Also physical activities help you with nofap and also they make you more manly more muscular which helps too! Not only with visuals but with confidance too. You no longer see a gap between how beautiful the girl you like is, and how ugly you are. Because you feel more manly and it makes you more confident.

Nofap is a trick. Nothing else. But a good trick, if you know how to use it.
Plus it has an awesome community, which helps a lot, since after a long day where you met a bunch of rude ignorant people , talking to helpful people is golden.

Thats what I could add. Good luck with your goals, and also nofap.

 

Bro you are blaming everything other than yourself. A bad breakup caused your problems? No. No one owes you a relationship if they want they have the right to leave you and so do you. Why feeling sad over a breakup? It is just nonsense. People come and go, come and go, rinse and repeat. + you can't forget about her and are feeling really down over her not being with you anymore. That's kind of an addiction you see. Almost as if there was nothing going on in your life and she was the only fun thing that you ever had.
Grow up.
And no hard feelings.

 

I honestly am against this 90 day minimum streak. Honestly the fact that you go more than 1 day at a time is more than great. However, the fact that you still want to continue the streak is all you need. So you fell, everyone falls. Get up and get back in the fight Saiyan.