This could be Helpful for hardcore p*rn users

Hey guys im a new member in the community so hello to all of u i was just thinking that what if for the more hardcore p*rn users they decrease the stimulus every time they fap and then completely stop it as many of them are more avid users they can reduce the stimulus in this way
1)If u watch a p*rno of a too intense super hardcore category u can start by lowering it 2 a less hardcore version for eg from like a 4some or 5some u can decrease it 2 a one on one that is not 2 hardcore
2 after the first step u can switch 2 magazines instead of videos magazines like penthouse hustler etc
3 then the last step try 2 watch playboy and appreciate the human body more than the sexual aspects like the private parts as playboy is a magazine having nude models in various poses without exposing their lower body much
4 finally after all this u can avoid fapping
Note:there should be a gap of 2 weeks between each step and not consecutively and try 2 talk 2 girls normally after the second step as it would help u overcome the perverted thoughts and would help u think about them more positively.
It has worked for me personally but the thing was i didnt watch much hardcore stuff just one on one vids without any weird stuff it kind of worked with me cause personally i think that if we lower the intensity bit by bit our brain will adapt 2 it and finally would lower the intensity of our urges 2 watching a softcore playboy magazine instead of watching super hardcore stuff hence helping u and ur body to develop actual emotions for a girl instead of thinking bout them when u r sexually aroused

 

Maybe ur right guys but i saw this tedx talk that says that after researching it was seen tht older ppl like people of 50y/o didnt have any like pied problems before high speed internet p*rn ws introduced as they had magazines like playboy

 

Maybe jst maybe the method is worked fr me bcuz i was never an avid p*rn user nd never increased the intensity of the content 2 much and always stayed with more normal p*rn with less usage like 1 vid a month,I didnt crave it too much ,infact i started again after a 1 1/2 years like recently around october 2017, even also maintaining my 1 month rule,besides i have suddenly become more sexually aware

 

Ya that too if u cant reduce the intensity because of excessive amount of p*rn use u first have to stop watching for some time like 2 weeks nd when u have those urges to the point tht u want to relapse instead of relapsing to a hardcore P*rn vid u can try to switch to less intensive P*rn as at tht point ur brain jst wants anything to fap 2 so u would be feeding it with less intensive vids/magazines like hustlers,penthouse etc.then try to have a gap in between unless another urge comes up to the point u cant resist nd have to relapse.try fapping to playboy instead of relapsing to complete hardcore p*rnThis in my opinion would help in conditioning ur brain to something u should actually get an erection 2 like a hot chick this is actually what would happen to a normal guy who has never watched p*rn and would get sexually aroused around good looking girls

 

If u see in playboy instead of concentrating on the girls jugs or the vaginal area u can take a look at their face they dont seem to look like they r being forced to be shot nude they have their emotions on their face unlike in a porno movie where the cam is always shooting the private parts and never the face as the face would always have a different emotion like they r forced to smile 2 moan nd stuff ,P*rn is actually prostitution that is given a name,nd every p*rnstar has some kind of a past where they had been sexually abused ofcourse some of them do it for the money but isnt it better to look at a playboy where the girls actually like what they are doing instead of being forced nd magazines contain a still picture whereas p*rnography is a video nd a still pictures showing a nude women is better than a video showing sex

 

Ya ur right in ur own way besides i dont have to worry i dont watch porn now nd dont have any sexual problems.max to max i go through playboy once or twice a month so ya im sorted

 

I really suggest u guys should see tedtalk videos on youtube just type ted x masturbation on youtube nd see the masturbation myth video and the great porn experiment see it and you will see what im trying to make u guys understand

 

Even researchers say that masturbation is good for u until u keep it in control if u are actually substituting masturbation with other activities u have a problem basically masturbation is a tool to discover your body and sexuality it is the practice and having actual sensual positive sex with a person is the main thing

 

You are right man thats that and in the other ted talk about the masturbation myth the sex therapist even told tht masturbation is given names such as self abuse in the society its not bad it is human nature to discover ur own body and ur own sexuality she even told that masturbation can happen from any age even infancy . She told that masturbation is infact positive as it alleviates stress nd headaches etc but too much masturbation is bad as it is hampering ur day to day life she evn told that the stimuli that u use can also have a negative effect on ur sexual prowess so inshort masturbation is good for us in a controlled manner and not something 2 get obsessed over