This forum is overmoderated

Discussion in 'NoFap Technical Support and Feedback' started by Frühlingstimme, Nov 4, 2016.

  1. Frühlingstimme

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    Even normal posts are considered disrespect. Too much posts are deleted for arbitrary reasons. It's subjective what is considered a disrespect and a confrontation of different opinions.

    Please fix it.
     
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  2. IGY

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    For this to be constructive, you need to give examples.
     
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  4. BuddhaPunkRobotMonk

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    Yes please give examples, OP. The moderation team does it's best to respect freedom of speech, while still encouraging people to abide by the NoFap rules about being respectful and courteous to other users.
     
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  5. Deadlihood

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    op is right , this forum is the fucking gutter , look at what happened to this shithole , fuck you gabe deem, he better not delete this free speech for arbitrary reasons. dickface.
     
  6. What did Gabe Deem do? I love his YouTube videos and He's barely ever on this site lol
     
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  7. Alexander

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    Gabe can't delete posts on NoFap, since he isn't involved with the NoFap platform.
     
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  8. Cantkeepmeaway

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  9. IGY

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    Oh dear. You never did get the point did you? He never asked for help, he made it clear he was just venting. You were unable to accept that, you became increasingly offensive and, eventually, @giggleshmack had to stop you with a warning. You contravened the rules by telling someone to go jerk to porn on a porn addiction recovery website! :rolleyes: The moderator acted correctly.
     
  10. Deadlihood

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    Yes, sir; I know. Just mocking OP. :rolleyes:

    cc: @Lazarus Shuttlesworth

    =)
     
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  11. Cantkeepmeaway

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    @IGY And here we go again with you bashing everything I say, do, and act. First you go on my profile page and wine about my profile pic being evil and how you have guns. Then you defend that ungrateful guy who I was trying to help.

    P.S. If you make a post on the loneliness section you ARE asking for help.
    That's why that other guy defended my on that post calling him ungrateful. He was ungrateful, here I was taking time out of my day to give him REAL WORLD advice. Not what he wants to hear.

    This is what I'm talking about mods, people attack me, then I respond back, they get butthurt and moddy & maddy, and I get another msg in my inbox about how horrible of a person I am.

    All I try to do is help ppl here, because I've been through it all. The worst of porn addiction.
    People should heed my advice.
     
  12. IGY

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    LMAO! :p
     
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  13. Caveat Emptor

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    @IGY, I appreciate the positive feedback. =)

    In regards to this thread in general... first off, free speech does not apply to privately owned internet forums. Free speech is meant to protect you from prosecution by the government for unpopular views. This forum is not related to any government anywhere. As such, the concept of free speech does not automatically allow anyone to be a dick here, or on Facebook, or reddit, or 99% of internet websites. So please stop saying or implying that moderating your posts is a violation of your free speech rights, cause its not. That belief is 100% wrong... I now see that @Deadlihood was sarcastic in that comment, but this paragraph still applies! lol

    @Cantkeepmeaway, even if that user was ungrateful to you, that doesn't allow you to tell him to go look at porn and relapse. Even if it his post was negative, your response to it was so disproportionate that it put you in the wrong. We are all here trying help each other quit porn. His "ungratefulness" did not go against that goal. Your reply absolutely did. That's why it was moderated and why you were warned.
    And even if your advice was good, and he rejected it, just cut your losses there, man. Don't throw a tantrum and get warned. That doesn't help anybody. Just stop replying to thread.
    If anyone here is tempted to encourage another user to relapse, stop, and take a break from the forum. Everyone will be better off that way.
     
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  14. Deadlihood

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    Hi, mods -

    May I put this quote in my signature?:

    Cantkeepmeaway said:
    Or would that be a little... tacky? :rolleyes:
     
  15. Iscarpia87

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    I think I held my composure pretty well and ultimately it wasn't me that got that thread shut down. We are all different and no advice is one size fits all, but yes, we're all here for one reason and should unite under that and try and be respectful if we don't agree. Sorry if I was "ungrateful", I just didn't think it was good advice. Also, don't remember ever cussing anyone out.
     
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  16. IGY

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    I agree, you did maintain your composure while under fire from him and later harassment from another member.

    Actually, you were not ungrateful. You, nor anyone else, has to adopt the mind set of those that give their opinions.

    I can confirm that you didn't cuss anyone, but he did! E.g. @Cantkeepmeaway said to you, "u fucking loser"! :rolleyes:
     
  17. Deadlihood

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    I did get emotional in that thread, I'll admit. I was just whining, but people should have a right to that outlet, it's good to be able to come on here and constructively vent. Me and the other dude resolved it after the thread was closed in a PM. He still thinks I have a victim complex, but what're ya gonna do? We're all victims of ourselves.
     
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  20. Deadlihood

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    Who's Oscar Wilde, again?
     

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