This is Day one for me, anyone wanna Join in with Me?

Well it's not my first day but I relapsed... twice after a 2 month streak so I'm back on day 1. Also I hope we can all make it through this journey together! Let's keep each other updated and help each other out!

 

I'm with you!

 

I really like your reply man! And your tip, damn ... that is what I was trying to do since I join here! It is a really good tip!
But once I watched P (The day I am telling about) and just that made me feel guilty. Damn.
It made my thoughts rebounce to a 'square one' kind of feel

However - I will try my best in the future!
Thanks man for your respons!

 

DAMN IT! Today I relapsed. I was in the part of Youtube that I should not have been in. I lost it, and M'd.
I feel so angry and so disappointed at myself right now.
... I don't know what to think ... what to do..

 

It is okay buddy. We've all been through that phase. Don't be hard on yourself. If you fall , you don't stay there. You get back up. It all counts to a decision you take of getting yourself back on track. Stay focused, avoid all the sources that lead you to M and eventually O. When you feel like you are giving in to your urges , change the tab on your browser, get here, read the forums and articles here. I do it all the time when i feel the urges and trust me it helps you change your thoughts. Then it all comes down to you to stop the urges and get yourself busy with some other work. Stay focused bud and stay strong , you can do this . Your goal is for 30 days right. Remind yourself this goal every morning after waking up.! All the best.

 

You are right. Thank you.
Even if I failed 2 times today - I will stand back up and continue.
My real goal is 90 days. But one month at a time, I guess.

 

I'm with you on this one. I am starting today. No more b-shtting. I can't live my life addicted to pixels on a screen. I want to be feel real love of a women and not some actor on a screen. I want to control myself and not be a slave to my urges. It now or never guys. i have come to realize that we really are living in a age where the advanced technology (internet and screen imagery) can really take over lives of people whom don't really want to look at those screens. They are just pixels for crying out loud!! Break the screen and there is no women there!!

 

Hey everyone. Sorry to hear you won't be around so much Khudjo - thans for starting this thread and keeping us updated. A few of us started at the same time, and although we haven't all had the same fortune, it's been great to share.

I fell back off the wagon in a big way last night, so I'm going to check in daily as - as I have discovered - not updating the forum on my progress results in a lack of accountability. I need to check in so someone, anyone can give me just a little encouragement.

My thirty day challenge fell apart. I have managed a week, so I am going to set my bar lower and go for two weeks. Wish me luck.

 

Yes, count me in. I just signed in as well.. Lets start!

 

Good luck Emmet. Keep posting your progress.

 

Its been 29 days. Goal is for 60 days. I watched P for 3-4 days,but didn't MO, controlled myself as I didn't want to lose the goal. But then i thought what is the use if I'm cheating on this process.So I've decided to block myself from P as well completely. Hope other guys are going strong. Keep updating . Stay Strong. We will get through this together.!

 

This is day 2 for me and i'm done with compulsory masturbation being my entire sex life, just in my room looking at weirder and weirder stuff as time goes on. I'm starting with a 90 day reboot with no porn or masturbation.

 

Josh Taylor, I'm with you man. Just relapsed and I'm gonna go 30 days straight with looking to expand that further to 90. I'm sick of my lack of control and the reliance on porn and masturbation.

 

I hope you guys think this is as inspirational as I think:


And Good Luck to you all!

We can make it! Don't give up!

 

Wise words, indeed ...