This is Day one for me, anyone wanna Join in with Me?

Day 1 officially started today. Day 0 (ie yesterday) didn't go so well. I've worked through most of the guilt today, and this afternoon I'm feeling pretty good overall. Looking forward to going a full 90 days no PMO, (followed by no P...forever)committed to put the work in. I noticed last night how mindless I was about engaging in the behavior. Like a drone. I know to achieve any goal in life, one must put forth conscious effort. I'm finally ready to do that.

 

This is my day one too. I would really appreciate it if someone could help me remain accountable and get me through my first 30 days.

 

i had same problem and is my day 14 today. i felt so sad and lonely because i live alone now 6 years and im single 7 years. i wanted to talk to m friend but she never had time to only talk with me and i was like bag of shit. i told her also that i don't want a friend like this. i do not see anything better in my social life. i met a girl that is the closest to me in the way i see things in life and i adore her but she sees me as a friend. i wish i could date her but even nofap will not change a shit. and there is a woman from job who is cute but she does not even see me and this makes me depressed. i need to meet new people just to talk to them. i don't think i will find another person i will like that much even if i don't fap. things get so much complicated and i hate it so much. i actually hate who i am because i fucked up things in life

 

Guys, sorry for the absence - I mentioned about a week ago I had a relapse, which turned into a once-daily thing that, every time, was the result of me baiting myself with P. We're talking losing some hours in the afternoons, nothing major - but it felt like a huge disappointment after the effort I'd put in during the first week.

I chose to stay away from these forums, firstly, because I was feeling sorry for myself and, secondly, I needed to figure out how seriously I was taking this.

But, had a bit of a turnaround this morning; I started looking at P (bad) and just at the moment where I was about to progress to M ... somehow managed to put the device down and leave the room. Just walked away. That was an hour ago. I'm still getting that "hey, come on, just one more" feeling ... but I walked away. That's a big step for me. Funny that the moment that drove me to this site was a heavy PMO session, and the thing that brought me back this second time was walking away from it.

I hope everyone is doing well - Khudjo, well done for reaching 18 days (and sorry I wasn't around when you were having bad days of your own).

How is everyone else?

 

I'm with you dude! It's 0400 and tomorrow is my day one!

 

18 days since reboot...aim is for 60...Going Strong.. totally blocking myself from P . I guess its better this way .. examinations are here.. and i can concentrate.. Unlike when i was in the PMO binge,when everything was fizzy. Also relationship wise , problems i can deal it in a better way..clear head helps. Guys thanku for support. I hope u guys are also going strong too.

 

I am on day 13.
I hope I will be able to leave this.

 

Well done

 

yes..keep trying....

 

Legend ...

 

just behind you Khudjo.. 20 days ...urges are getting stronger. When i can't control , I come in to NoFap, I read our forums and it helps.

 

Hey guys!
I have been without PMO in 20 days.
I was thinking, if I was trying 'hard mode' and I watched P today without M or O, does that mean I am now on day one again? Or how does it work?

I was watching P for a while today, but I have everything under control. Do I have to reset my counter now?