This may be a weird question...

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JJohnson, Jun 12, 2015.

  1. JJohnson

    JJohnson Fapstronaut

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    Has anybody here ever considered the use of a nofap aid such as a male chastity device? I don't want to break any rules so I won't post an image of one. I don't want this conversation to trigger anybody, but I'm curious about the possibility of its effectiveness as an aid of sorts. If you don't know what one is it is essentially a cage for your penis that prevents you from being able to fap (or other things). It can be secured with a lock and key. I was just looking at them on Amazon and you can get one for as little as 10-15 bucks.

    I'm married and my wife is with me every step of the way on my journey . She initially thought that fapping wasn't that big of a deal, but I showed her some of the things I had began to look at when fapping and she was disgusted. I could give her the key and she could unlock me to take showers and such but I could keep my penis locked away during the times I'm most vulnerable to giving in?

    I've really been struggling since yesterday and have relapsed yet again. It's hard(no pun intended) when the only weapon you have is willpower! Lol I was talking to a friend about my problem and he suggested the chastity device.

    Is this a healthy way to get where we're going or is this a good idea to get me past the first 21 days (My short term goal) or so?

    Thoughts?
     
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  2. Captain B

    Captain B Fapstronaut

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    For how long have you been trying to get to 21 days? I'd say a chastity device should be your very last option. Might even counter the point of actually improving yourself because you don't practice your willpower as much.

    You can do it without. It's going to be harder not to touch yourself but none of us came here for the easy way, right?
     
  3. JJohnson

    JJohnson Fapstronaut

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    @Captain B

    Thanks for the reply.

    I've been trying for a year or so now. I recently made it to eleven days, but have been struggling since Thursday. My wife went out of town this weekend to visit her family and took the kids. I've been relapsing hourly. It's just too easy to access right now. It feels like I'm hobbling around on a broken leg. I feel like I need a pair of crutches, to help me get to the point where I can walk without a limp. You know what I mean?

    It was just a thought. It may be a little excessive. I was just wondering if anybody had used or knew of a NoFap aid.
     

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