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This site has changed me already

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by BringItUp, Jan 20, 2018.

  1. Jan 20, 2018 #1
    BringItUp

    BringItUp Fapstronaut

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    I started the year with NoFap. Made it to 15 days then relapsed. I realized that I can't do 90 days at once. I have to do 15 days, then 30 days, then 60 days, then 90 days.

    For the most part, my life has sucked, especially in terms of dating. I'm 35 and have not had a girlfriend since 2002. Banged some random chicks since then but that's it. This year, I'm committed to becoming a better person. My goals are:

    1) 90 Day NoFap
    2) Work out 4 times per week
    3) Stop drinking
    4) Eat healthy
    5) Stop lusting over women

    I have other bad habits ... need to get rid of all of them this year. I cannot keep living a double life (I would never mention this stuff to coworkers) and the fapping has made me feel shameful.

    Being a loner is tough, especially in a world where pretty much everything depends on socialization. I really want to open up and I can tell that I do that more with NoFap.
     
    BringItUp, Jan 20, 2018
    BringItUp, Jan 20, 2018
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  2. Jan 22, 2018 #2
    Deleted Account

    Deleted Account Guest

    Hey

    I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me.

    Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much.

    What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode.

    First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals.

    Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals.

    Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational".

    That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community.

    * L

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    PS: Why not say hello to some members? The fellowship is so important to me, I hope you might find it important as well.

    @GeeWhizz Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/152127/
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    @Sunshadow Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/75108/
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    @Tomoya Okazaki Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143534/
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    @2525 Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/150280/
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    @Visor Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144228/
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    @Dragonnlife Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/136148
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    @weddingnails Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143418/
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    @Struggle Bug Journals at: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/141911/


    There are many more, and you can discover them on your own. But, these are great places to start.
     
    Deleted Account, Jan 22, 2018
    Deleted Account, Jan 22, 2018
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