hi guys, as someone who saw more than one forum that helps people who struggle with P (porn) for a different language, I must say - yours isn’t helping new members. Me ? I don’t need this forum so much, I have achieved much in the battle against the P. I Am a veteran at this in my own country that don’t speaks English, my concern is for the new members that will come to seek aid to face P in your forum. And come they shall, oh my god they shall come, with huge numbers to seek help. This P monster don’t stop. What they will want, this new members ? Motivation - for sure, inspiration, important too. But first and foremost, they want some clean, good and hard advice how to avoid P. And this forum don’t do any job to help them with that. A new member that would seek advice will come, naturally, to success stories - where else he would hear what to do ? And what is he going to find here ? A gold mine, that will takes 567 years to dig.... Here: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/the-method-to-leave-pmo-forever.250077/ Someone did 70 days of no P, his conclusion ? "Throw the thoughts away" , this guy talks about the power of the mind to play with the urge, it’s a whole new technic that he explain none about.. too bad. Another one: talk about meditation: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/how-i-used-meditation-to-end-my-addiction.249567/ This guy is a real gem - posted that he is clean for 30 days, he "feels good about himself" and that about it... why the hell someone will want to see this post ? What does it benefit a new member instead of just putting another useless-for-him post in an already 80 pages of posts ? 80 pages ! https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/30-days-wow-it-feels-good-to-post-here.250002/ Another one - talk about what it feels like to be clean in the day 34, another about being clean at day 67, and so on. Another talks about the reasons why he started to see P. Another talks some advice. Another talks about what to think without P. And a lot lot more people just posting "I did it ! I am clean 45666 days, it feels awesome " and... vanish , without advice, no solid knowledge how they stopped, unless you count the advice "just... do it dude ! It’s awsome" Really .....? Sigh That’s so foolish guys, there is so much information, or people with information, if you put all pieces of all stories here together, who knows what you will find ? But that requires work, a lot of work. so ,a new member, what is he going to find ? A million stories, all tell small something, and in the end ? He will learn nothing... There is no summing up articles, no tool-listing, to solid advices, just million and million and millions of words. You people think that by posting another post about "hey I did extra 30 days and it feels great" help someone in any way, I think you are wrong, I think you make this important sub-forum into a huge gigantic text wall, with too many stories and too many bad apples or just tasteless apples to get to the good stuff, the stuff that really helps people, in the most simple way - explaining to them what to do and how to do it. Instead they all see a lot of stories and feelings and personal achievements, and feel like a beggar who got into the kings feast - they don’t even know how to hold the fork to start eating themselves... I really hope someone do something about it guys. If not - well, this all forum will go down eventually. And definitely not because it lacks demand.