This week I didnt watch porn but fapped 5 times

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Sakhi, Oct 27, 2018.

  1. Sakhi

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    Im someone who has been almost for 3 years here. I always struggled to stop pmo. I really could decrease the time of pmo. The longest I went was 14 days... but once again I turned back to the first times when I fapp 5 times a week. Now this week I didnt watch porn but fapped 5 times. Last night I fapped two times without porn. I do really wanna quite.im 24 years old. I dont know why I think that If i dont pmo the world would be usless. My mind tells me that life is impossible without porn or fapping.. the other reason I fapp is the mesical websites claim masturbation is normal. That is what when I read I come back to fapping... I got tired of posting the same thing again and again. Couldnt stop fapping. I will no longer wanna post. I want this to be my last post. Im still on my way and wanna quit pmo. My last question is that i know porn is extremely addictive.. but masturbation is also addictive as I experienced in the last 5 years. I have been a masturbation addict. Then why doctors reject this and say fapping is normal. A friend of mine lives in sweden. I told him not to watch porn because its addictive. But his doctor there told him that even porn is normal. Enjoy your senses...
     
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  2. countitjoy5

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    Don't trust these medical websites that say masturbation is normal. It's a lie. Medical science is materialistic and doesn't consider the spiritual/emotional problems connected to the practice. You are letting this falsehoods strengthen your justification for doing something that you are trying to quit. They say that the practice is healthy and if you don't sexually relieve yourself you will become sick. The truth is the opposite of this. It's because these people have no light.
     
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  3. Sakhi

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    How will the damages recover? I fapped for 5 years..
     
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  4. countitjoy5

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    You can recover, Jesus Christ will heal you, put your faith in Him, he will make you whole again.
     
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  5. bleong1234

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    I don't know if I would agree that masturbation is not normal. IT IS, but in moderation. Here's the problem..... The internet makes it out of control and way too easy to get addicted and then you run into relationship problems, honesty, ED. But alas it's possible to reset you're brain to an extent. The only problem is if you ever watch porn again you go down a slippery slope and get addicted just like that you have to respect that you have a problem.

    After I stopped watching porn in only took a few weeks till my sex with my girlfriend was a lot better. The thing you have to be careful of isn't porn and sexuality as much as it is the shame of hiding it and what happens after too much use. If you find someone you can share it with or be open with it then that's really what's gonna make the world of difference. That's what separates an addiction and a normal habit.
     
  6. CH3RRY

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    I can 100% relate to your disbelief that life is empty and useless without porn and masturbation. I used to feel like that aswell. The problem for me was that I had no connection or healthy interest in real girls. I never thought I could be with a real girl, and I wasn't even particularly attracted to them. But as time went by, I realized there's nothing better than real girls and they are where my focus should be on. Not in unrealistic internet porn. You need to bring your attraction towards girls (assuming you're a straight male) alive, and you will see how nothing can compare to real life. Oh and same goes for imagination which is what you've been doing now, I stopped doing that aswell cause I didn't want to just imagine doing things with girls I wanted to actually live that life.
     
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  7. Sakhi

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    I have tried weaning method since started nofap. Well that didnt really work for me. I have masturbated 4 times a week recently. What if I go cold turkey from now on? How hard would it be for someone like me who is used to masturbating 5 times a week and then go cold turkey???
     
  8. CH3RRY

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    Honestly, I think you're already making progress. This is exactly how I have managed to quit masturbation. I'm different from other people here, cause I don't have a strong urge to fap or even look at porn anymore. So I stopped watching porn and thought that it is okay to masturbate without it whenever I feel like it. I was doing that for sometime, maybe a few times a week but I did go back to looking at porn. Finally I managed to just masturbate with my imagination, but naturally I stopped doing it. I didn't really plan on quitting masturbation once and for all, it just happened cause I saw no reason or benefits in doing that. So it is good that you've quit porn and now you can try to maybe slowly reduce your masturbation. I understand you probably might have big urges, I'm not an expert on how to deal with those cause I really don't have them.
     
  9. Sakhi

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    Well friend. The worst mistake I have made was that I thought fapping is normal. That lead me again to edgin, increasing the amount of releasing and eventually again to pmo. Thats why Im still on nofap otherwise I could have succed .. I will never do it again. Look all the people with success stories are those who have tried hardmode...
     
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    Yeah I never really planned on going hard mode, it just happened. Ofc I always knew that I didn't need masturbation, that it was just a bad habit. The fact that I don't even feel like doing it nowdays proves that it really is just a bad habit. If it helps you, my ultimate goal is to just have sex, that is where I'm heading towards everyday. What's the point of fapping when I can just go have sex with real girls? You might think, "Oh but I can't do it right now", yeah probably but you have to work on things that will get you there. Just focus on them, everytime you feel like fapping just remember what youre doing it for.
     
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  11. Sakhi

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    Its time to f
    Its time to go cold turkey. Lets see how long I can go. Whenever I succed I will write the reply here for you dear.
     
  12. CH3RRY

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    Some would say good luck, but that's wrong. There's no luck in this, it is only a matter of strength. But yeah reply when you make it.
     
  13. Sakhi

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    Well friend I dont know whats going on with some nofap users here. Masturbating is harmful. Even u do it once a month, it again increases, almost like porn and also fapping itself leads back to por. After a period of fapping without porn it will be no joyful to fapp without porn. You will again have to use porn with it. Besidez masturbation drains life force. Dont tell me its normal if done in moderation. I experienced all of these..
     
  14. doitforduoduo

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    i just got here and saw ur concern ,hope u could literally make it ,bro!
     
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  15. lovebeach

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    5 years its nothing, I have fapped over 30 years, over 40000 faps
     
  16. Sakhi

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    Well hope god heal both of us.. you can decied to stop it from now
     
  17. Sakhi

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    Its day 7 of no porn and day 4 of not masturbation. Well guys I have some paranoid and also brain fog. Yesterday I was good. Today after a hot pic on fb, I was so urged and watch some sexy photo. My mind was telling me to fap. But eventually I closed the fb and put my phone away and didnt do anything wrong . I was good yesterday but today I have been so stresses and tempted. Feeling like something heavy is on my chest. And also in the first days of cold turkey every night I was dreaming stupid things and with that I was about to have wet dream every night...
     

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