Thoughts and Opinions about Dating.. Am I overthinking?

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by AChangeInPerspective, Jul 3, 2019.

  1. AChangeInPerspective

    AChangeInPerspective Fapstronaut

    Hey Fapstronauts,
    I am slowly approaching my first month mark, which will be the longest I have ever abstained. Besides a few edging incidents, I have kept myself relatively on track.
    I have been talking to this girl for about a month now, (haven't seen each other in a few weeks due to travel and such) and she is coming back in a few days. Though I am planning on holding off sex for a bit and take things slow as per her request, this will be my 2nd sexual encounter ever, (the first being 4 years ago). What I can't get out of my head though, and seems to be plaguing me as of late is the possibility of not being able to perform. Or rise to the occasion. I think about this often and I think this was due to my porn use.. when I finally quit watching porn, I was fapping without getting hard anymore, or barely maintaining a 30-40% erection.
    Thoughts, opinions?
  2. I would completly abstain from anything sexual for the first 90 days at least.
    I personally try to avoid females altogether for the first time.
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  3. DeepParkWater

    DeepParkWater Fapstronaut

    If youre worried about performance try natural based performance enhancers. What I mean by this is that you can blend together various nuts juices and wholesome suppliments for a natural boost. This not only increases your libido but also helps your body detox and heal. One I used that previously that honestly gave decent natural results when i had performance anxiety had a mixture of watermelon, beets, cayenne pepper, a wierd powder suppliment from whole foods, pumpkin seeds, etc. With this at least since theyre all natural and organic aphrodesiacs they wont have negative sides effects like the pills hopped with caffeine. On the off chance you get dependent on using it, youll be really healthy since it detoxes your body of harmful chemicals making you healthier overall. Look one up on youtube.

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