Time for change

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by PatricíoA, Oct 8, 2014.

  1. PatricíoA

    PatricíoA New Fapstronaut

    My name is Patrick, and I am 20 years old. For 10+ years I have been in PMO on and off, and in the past two, it's been more like every day.
    I'm not proud of my past, but it's the past. Worrying about it won't help me.
    I'll reboot or die trying. My goal is hard mode until I get married in 5 months.
    Not only am I doing this for myself, but for my fiancée as well. She's worth it. That motivation enough for me.
  2. scrat_on_speed

    scrat_on_speed Fapstronaut

    She is worth it. This site has a lot of great resources and encouragement. Good luck, and God bless!
  3. PatricíoA

    PatricíoA New Fapstronaut

    Thanks! 3 days and still going! Haha
  4. FapHappyNOmore

    FapHappyNOmore Fapstronaut

    Patrick - Oh man - if you can get this lesson learned now at your age and BEFORE you get married - there are great rewards and pleasures and a "REALNESS" of life and its beauty ahead for you and your fiancee that you cant even begin to imagine - and I know you can do this!

    Read some stories about how some of us old farts underestimated or discounted the way this PMO rewired our brains and how we ( me especially) literally lost it all when we had it in our hands chasing a fantasy or porn image in our heads - ognoring the flesh and blood right beside us dying because we are killing them with our addiction that is crushing their spirits and desire to be around us - ex-wifes, lost businesses, children who wont speak, entire families that wont speak all because of PMO addiction.

    If you get this right I promise you it will be worth more to you when you hit my age than a dozen lottery jackpots - because the real jackpot is being a true man - free from the NEED to go in a freaking closet and jack to some junkie bimbo who got turned out into porn because of her drug addiction that you or I jacked to - she is someones daughter man and she IS in pain no matter the face she makes on camera - that soul is dead inside - - this is not how life is supposed to be - oh I hope for you that you get this one right my friend - the whole world awaits you if you do - pain and isolation await if you do not.

    Good luck my brother and if you need anything at all I am here to support and encourage you!

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