Time to become real men.

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by False promise, May 3, 2020.

  1. False promise

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    In my opinion, this is the most important section on nofap. Reading success stories from people who have been busting nuts with a partner, but abstained from p and jerking off, don’t inspire me. Anyone can do that.

    I’m on the quest of becoming freakishly healthy. I’ve incorporated many other health practices in my life from extremely disciplined diets to highly specialized exercise, to complete sobriety. What I’ve learned is that semen retention and perhaps even abstinence is absolutely fundamental to your health. Despite all the other health practices, I still deeply experience the negatives of pmo. In fact, I believe that I’m more sensitive to the ill effects of it for that very reason. It’s almost like it’s the isolated or controlled variable in my own study of my health. One relapse can cause disaster. I’m determined to remove this degenerate activity from my life for good.

    It’s a shame that this section is so baron. Hardly anyone posts and it’s often not meaningful. I want to know who’s with me? Who is ready to eliminate this from their life, entirely. One streak for the rest of your fucking life. I made an account because most of the people around me are complete degenerates. I want to be surrounded by people who think, analyze, understand, and most importantly, DO.

    Let’s discuss strategies, offer our unique perspectives, and hold each other accountable. I welcome any testimonies and inspiration below. It’s time to man up. And guess what, your seed is the epitome of your man hood. There’s a reason people say “that guys got balls.”
     
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  2. GoldenDreams

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    Well I agree with most of this. I have to offer, that I believe orgasm is singularly detrimental for my mental health, to the point that I am working to eliminate it entirely. If I have to suffer through “the little death” one more time, let it be to make a child.
    Further, as a married man, I’ve been on both sides of this. I can say the there might be a lot of folks who don’t suffer from ejaculation alone the way I do, so that’s great for them. I do believe that porn and or just masturbation has ill effects on everyone. So it’s total retention for me. I can’t believe it took me this long to figure it out.
     
  3. False promise

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    I commend you brother. To have a wife and still practice semen retention cannot be an easy task. It sounds like you’ve learned your lessons along the way and know what the right thing to do is.

    It’s true, ejaculating can have more severe effects on different people, but everyone will be affected negatively. Some are more tolerant. When I look back to my early years with this awful habit, I can’t help but correlate most of my flaws back then to the loss of my life force every single day.
     
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  4. Subzero-32

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    Strongly agree with you, it saddens me that this section is the less cared about section in the forum, and the fact that a lot of people here sometimes post some crazy ideas that drive other people away
    I'm at day 25 semen retention now, it's a lifestyle to be honest, doing it makes you reconsider your whole life, physicaly and spiritually
    Will I do it for the rest of my life? I don't think so, maybe when I get married I will have sex once in a month or something, I think this is reasonable, still a sacrifice but I'm not gonna lie, I love women, but who knows, maybe I'll change my mind when I reach that point
    But for now and the coming times, I'm here, and regarding porn and masturbation, I will do my best to not fall into it's traps again, self pleasing is destructive
     
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  5. 7seeds

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    I agree with you , i have made the decision not to ejaculate again. So far I have succeeded and i have no intention of failing.
    Semen retention is vital to a healthy life. I have found a lot of inner peace from it .
    Too many men on this site are obsessed with chasing after females, it is a road to a life of frustration and despair .
    The right woman will find you if that is what you are looking for.
    It is important to stop lusting and leering after females, see them and move your mind on. Clean your mind .
    Society has convinced many men that without a woman and sex they are incomplete , this is simply Not true.
    Grow yourself , find your inner self ,you will find contentment.
     
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  6. False promise

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    I’m with you 100%. For now, as single young men, it’s crucial that we retain. If a relationship comes in the future we can revise our methods. But one thing is for sure, porn and m have no place in our lives, ever.
     
  7. False promise

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    Extremely well put, could not agree more. Your journey is impressive, thanks for the input. Is this your longest streak yet? And if so what was different about this one to make it as far as you have?
     
  8. Subzero-32

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    You know even though semen retention is something still isn't scientifically backed up, I mean there's not many studies on it, but there's something about it which I can't explain, whenever I'm retaining I feel like I'm in alignment with nature, with the universe, there's something so right about this which I can't put my finger on, most people get sarcastic when you say something like this, they don't understand
    I don't know if it's the semen, the balancing of brain chemicals, or the spiritual growth because of the absence of self pleasing, whatever it may be, semen retention is legit, and I believe everyone that tries it for some time will want to still do it, will know how draining ejaculating and orgasms are, but sex still wins over most people's minds, too hard to resist these days because of the frickin media
    I wanna go far this time to understand this better and see what's waiting for me, I'm done with porn and masturbation, it's been a year of fighting, I've become wiser and stronger, and being single, it's the right time
    If you haven't already, then I reccomend you reading the book "the coiled serpent" ,I don't really agree with some of it's ideas or how it's presented, but the insights are trully interesting and powerful
     
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  10. Davidphd1866

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    Likewise, I too intend to stop ejaculation entirely. I have not been very successful so far, but I see not useful purpose for the ejaculation other than for procreation. With that exception, I REALLY agree with the original poster's title. It is time to be a real man. Cumming is for little boys.
     
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  12. Subzero-32

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    Thanks for sharing man, if you have other beneficial links and sources try collecting them and posting them in one post, it would be highly appreciated
     
  13. False promise

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    I know exactly what you mean. I can literally feel a sense of wholeness and innate power inside my body in my lower region and stomach air after retaining even only for a week. It builds and builds as time goes on. When I relapse, I feel a loss of that power instantly, I’m no longer complete. Every ejaculation is a sacrifice we make in order to create new life. We give up a part of ourselves to create another. Except 99.9% of the time most people ejaculate, their is no creation. Your sacrifice is no longer for any greater good, it’s only to your detriment. @GoldenDreams put it perfectly “the little death.”

    Man it’s nice to talk to people who get it, and take it seriously. And I will check out that book, thanks for the recommendation. Let’s go the distance this time. I’m right there with you and all other brothers that are here.
     
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  14. False promise

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    Fuckin right. Playing with your dick and busting nuts is for little boys. Time to man up and showcase true power. Real power is not having control over others, it’s having control over yourself. Take it seriously and you will be successful. Honour your stance that there is no use for ejaculation beyond procreation.
     
  15. 7seeds

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    Yes it is by far my longest, this time I made a real commitment to stop. The time was right for me to stop.
    This time My mind was totally committed to it, no doubts .
    That is no to say there have been times of extreme urges and temptations but have not failed in my quest .
    I am now in charge of my urges , they do not control me.
    So what I am trying to say is total, no doubt commitment , is the only way .
     
  16. matt2k12

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    count me in. the biggest pussy thread in this forum is the loneliness and dating section.
     
  17. Zyg

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    Yes
     
  18. 7seeds

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    Real men do not need females , females need real men.
     
  19. False promise

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    Congrats on nearly 160 days. Any insight to offer?
     
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  20. Davidphd1866

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    FANTASTIC QUOTE. I hope I may borrow that in the future.
     
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