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tips for virgin?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Arthur Eudaimonia, Sep 26, 2021.

  1. Arthur Eudaimonia

    Arthur Eudaimonia Fapstronaut

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    Can anybody give nofap tips for a 18yo Virgin?
    I really need to stop PMO for life,I have some dreams i wanna achieve.
    My entrance exam is coming up soon but i cant help relapsing.

    Im a dilligent student and discipline about studying but when i see a tiny bit of trigger i would end up relapsing.
    For example when im looking for audiobook on Scribd i accidentally saw a hot girl on a cover of an Erotica novel on scribd(i never listen to erotica,this just came up on the trending list) I ended up find a way to bypass my porn blocker and relapsed.
    It would be really helpful if somebody can give me some tips.
     
  2. Godrye88

    Godrye88 New Fapstronaut

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    Save your self for marriage.
     
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  3. black_coyote

    black_coyote Fapstronaut

    Hi Arthur! At the horny teenager phase, your relapses are going to appear like an automatic reflex. You see some trigger and in the next moment, you are busting your nuts off like a wank machine. You don't even realize what the heck is happening till you are done fapping. The thing is- our thoughts flow so fast when we encounter triggers and We do not have the ability to watch our thoughts so that we can take full control of our actions.

    Cultivating this "ability" is crucial to beating this addiction and your overall well-being.

    Meditation can really help in introspection and catching your thoughts.

    Work out. Journalize. Ruthlessly strike down triggers. reading stories from www.yourbrainonporn.com was very helpful for me.

    Realize, with absolute clarity the futility of investing even one millisecond's worth of your time on crap.

    Beating porn addiction is not a hard task like climbing a mountain. It is an easy task, like dropping a piece of useless thrash. Only you have mistakenly believed that the thrash as some valuable stuff.

    All you have to realize is that the stuff you think as pancake is a total poison.

    Let the futility of indulgence go deep within you.

    good luck!
     
  4. Arthur Eudaimonia

    Arthur Eudaimonia Fapstronaut

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    I meditate daily for the last 2 weeks,I also exercises daily but it just really hard for me to break bad habits idk why it’s harder than creating good ones.
    I can easily manage to do good habits consistently like gratitude journal,meditate and exercise but breaking my porn addiction seems so hard,i’ve been exposed to porn from age 4.
     
  5. Arthur Eudaimonia

    Arthur Eudaimonia Fapstronaut

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    Thank you so much this is really helpful for me.I know sex is overrated by someone who never done it like me.
     
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  6. Arthur Eudaimonia

    Arthur Eudaimonia Fapstronaut

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    I do read Gary Wilson’s book “Your brain on porn” and then i managed to keep a 3 week streak but afterward i forgot what i read and relapsed again.
     
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  7. black_coyote

    black_coyote Fapstronaut

    Hi Arthur! Good to know that my post could be of help to you! :)

    Yes, we live in an objectification culture today, and everything is sexualized. It is natural that we become immersed in the world of objectification.

    You will be bombarded with lures, erotica, all the stuffs that can send your nerves tantalizing. Just look past those images and realize the shallowness of it.

    Now, you are working on your entrance exams right? take care to focus on the exams. Crack the exam, reboot, workout, build a healthy lifestyle, read books that will help you become a virtuous man.

    Don't worry about being a virgin. When you become rooted in your self-assuredness, you can find a woman with whom you can share your gifts. this is better than seeking a woman for using her to lose virginity. when you use a woman and reduce her to a level of object, you will feel drained. May your approach towards women be rooted in love and respect. Then, lovemaking can become a playful sacred experience worth cherishing. So take your time and dismiss the peer-pressure about virginity. Believe in your pace and timings.

    Right now, we got to build ourselves up and become an adult.

    Keep reading Gary Wilson. If you are bored, log on to www.yourbrainonporn.com and read the success stories. I used to read success stories, first thing in the morning, every day for months. It helped me to ward off temptations with the sword of rationality.

    I wish you success in your life! Take care!
     
    Last edited: Sep 27, 2021
  8. Erod3d

    Erod3d Fapstronaut

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    You need a gf
     

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