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Tips on How to Start Well/Keep Motivation Going

Balancing rebooting with studying.

  1. Baby Yoda

    Baby Yoda Fapstronaut

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    Hey guys Im a 20 year old sophomore in college and I have recently decided that if I want to beat this thing then I can't be an island anymore so Ive joined nofap and am trying to get involved. I have joined the Lord of the Rings Challenge and I am doing a 90 challenge to start but I know I need to take this day by day. (I am only on day one but I can normally go a week or so when I am motivated before the urges come back). I was wondering if you guys had any tips on how I can start well, keep my motivation going, and get over those humps of the first week or two that normally get me every time.

    Thanks in advance!
     
  2. Silverwolf

    Silverwolf Fapstronaut

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    Hey fellow LOTR brother! What helps me is to get out of the house/ minimize my internet time and exposure to triggers that first week. Basically bc that period is very sensitive in that anything will set you off. To keep your motivation going this forum is a great resource. Reading people's success stories and about their experiences really helps at the low points. Aside from that, there are also great books on the topic like "Your brain on Porn" by Gary Wilson, which are both informational and motivating. Again, I really stress the avoidance of triggers- which includes even sexual fantasies or thoughts. How do you avoid sexual thoughts? You really can't at first, but when they do come up try to switch your focus to your other priorities like studying or some other activity. When a sexual thought comes up, I also like to imagine putting all those images into a pile, pouring kerosene over it, and just burning it all. It's a weird trick haha, but it usually works.

    Good luck man!
     
  3. Urulaikizhangu

    Urulaikizhangu New Fapstronaut

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    Hey!
    Hope you have read Getting started guide.
    In addition to above, /r/NoFap subreddit's memes are hilarious and motivating.

    Cheers!
     
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