Tired of Nofap :(

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by SteveTaylor1985, Apr 20, 2017.

  1. SteveTaylor1985

    SteveTaylor1985 Fapstronaut

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    Im PMO addict for 8 years and I used to fap for 3-4 times everyday. I had ED and PIED.

    I am in flatline for last 3 weeks , I had few withdrawal symptoms too but now almost all withdrawal symptoms are gone , but only symptoms which is present is -"dead dick".

    I dont feel any horniness at all, Today I went in metro train and there were many hot women in the train, I stared at many of them to the point of being a perv.

    I stared at them and thought of having sex with them but I felt nothing down there :(
    It hurts me because I dont know if I will ever be fine or not,
    People say you will feel horny just by looking at hot women, I feel nothing :(
    I feel like a zombie when I look at hot chics, No feelings, no love no hate no horniness :( I feel like an impotent :( I feel like I will be impotent for the rest of my life with no libido at all :(
    I hate this life, :( can someone tellme when I will be fine with normal horniness :(
     
  2. GoAway

    GoAway Fapstronaut

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    Don't loose hope, this is perfectly normal in the flatline period. Just keep going and eventually your libido and sex drive will turn back to normal, but your brain needs time to reboot itself first.
     
  3. Ghost79

    Ghost79 Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry, I am sure it is just a phase in your healing process.
    Me and many others can only envy you for youre days count, so don't lose it!
     
  4. SteveTaylor1985

    SteveTaylor1985 Fapstronaut

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    There should be atleast some libido by this time now :(
    But I feel nothing down there :( absolutely nothing :(
    I get morning wood but feel no horniness during the day :(
     
  5. SteveTaylor1985

    SteveTaylor1985 Fapstronaut

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    What is the benefit of punishing myself from abtaining of pmo, when I have lost my libido .
    I dont feel horny at all :( I feel like a total fu%king impotent :(
     
  6. GoAway

    GoAway Fapstronaut

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    Who says that? Nobody can tell you how long your flatline is going to be because it's very different from person to person, so stop thinking that you should have some libido now and stop fantasising and get on with your life while your brain does what it needs and gets back to normal.
     
  7. SteveTaylor1985

    SteveTaylor1985 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks, do you think morning wood is a good sign?
    And my all other withdrawal symptoms went away excwpt my libido,
    My libido came back with a vengeance for 2 days but it went to zero again.

    And also, today in metro I maintained eye contact with people, i did not fear anyone, i had zero social anxiety.
    Do you think im progressing ? Are these all signs of improvement?.
     
  8. GoAway

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    Yes it's all good signs, you are in the flatline and what you are experiencing is perfectly normal for the flatline. Both morning woods and low libido throughout the day is normal. Just give it some time and your dick will come back to life eventually.
     
  9. SteveTaylor1985

    SteveTaylor1985 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks, what is normal libido?
    Do you get boners if you stare at hot chics? Is that normal libido?
     
  10. GoAway

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    A normal libido as I have understood it is when you can get hard, alone by yourself only by touching, without any fantasies or anything to look at.
     
  11. SteveTaylor1985

    SteveTaylor1985 Fapstronaut

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    That means i have to touch my penis in order to get an erection,
    Then why few dudes say in their success stories that they get boners just by looking at hot chics.
    I think your cock must rub against something to have an erection but some dudes claim that they get erections just by looking at hot chics?
     
  12. GoAway

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    You get me wrong, they also get boners looking at girl and holding hands with a girl. But also by touch alone without any visual stimulation.
     
  13. Tesslynne

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    You can't just start literally having sex on the train with them, so, isn't it better for a guy to get a boner when OH I don't KNOW...maybe when he's ACTUALLY making out with a girl he likes and actually HAS a decent chance of having sex very soon???

    Like, isn't it a waste other wise?

    I mean, I'm female so I really don't know but....yeah????

    You know?

    People don't fuck on trains, dude.

    I'm just SAYIN!
     
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  14. orison

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    hahah relax for fuck sake ur not supposed to get an erection by every pretty girl u see.. it happen when mating time ... ur too axious for nothing grow some guevas
     
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  15. BullishBull

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    Your story sounds similar to my situation when I was around 17 years old. I had PIED/ED, my dick was literally fucked. Back then I didn't know about NoFap, not sure if it even existed. But I essentially did the NoFap challenge for around 8 to 9 months, and the results were great. My erections improved massively, so it does definitely work from my experience. One of the biggest challenges during NoFap is the element of doubt and wondering if your dick will ever improve, you sometimes think you should test and see if it has improved, but you shouldn't test. You also have to remember with this mentality and mind set you are probably going to be anxious and this kills erection quality. You won't be impotent all your life. Remember even though you have some difficulties with your dick/erections, there are always options available. Even if your dick completely died and you was impotent, there are implants that automatically give you an erection. Never lose hope.
     
  16. Ghost_Rider

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    I have the EXACT SAME situation as you, mind brain fog is there and zero libido, I get morning wood and I also get a bit of erection during the day if I think about sex but thats it.
    It's like , the veil of brain fog is covering my libido and once brain fog is gone, the true libido will come back with vengeance.
    Just hang in there bro :)
     

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