Today my mom said that i have no friends ....

I don't want friends. You're so lucky. I love being alone and working on my hobbies (painting, music, explore the world, playing video games, go jogging, do gym, do crazy shit ). Turn your perceived weaknesses into strengths. It's that simple.

Otherwise you can try to fit yourself into mother's idealistic person, go out, have friends, date somebody, marry and live a settled life until you die.

Choose your pill.

 

Dont fall into her trap, she might be saying random stuff just to hurt you emotionally to see if you change, or to reply wity anger and make her point valid, somehow people still think this strategy works

Dude, just stay calm, brotip: dont even reply, sometimes letting her talk by herself is the best way, let the anger go and dont feel any resentment or hold any grudges, life will be so much easier.

And like peace seeker said, turn your perceived weekness into strenghs, proove her wrong in the process, go to the gym or sports, play videogames, study, paint, read, program, music whatever.

Live with less anger and do something in the meantime, improve yourself

 

Always remember that what people say is about them, not about you. She feels insecure about something and is taking it out on you. Maybe she was raised with the idea that it's so important to be liked (I know I was) and to have a lot of friends and that if you don't have these things you are going to die somewhere alone in a gutter (fear is often irrational). Maybe you can ask her calmly if telling you that nobody likes you is a kind thing to do and see what she says. Parents need to be held accountable for their behaviour too.

 

Back in July my mum got annoyed at me and said "If you dont change your attitude you'll spend the rest of your life alone and die alone". In that moment it took all the energy I had to not stand up and punch her so hard it would have knocked her on her ass. She knew that I was insecure about my social life and relationships (ie I have had none and I'm 21) so I knew it was a deliberate attempt to get me from 0-11 on the anger scale fast.

So yeah, I can relate, but what you have to realise is that while many family members do genuinely want the best for you and will try to help, others are just nasty people who think they can get away with being nasty because you are related. This is bullshit, and like Lily White says even parents need to be held to account. Next time this happens stand up for yourself.

 

It is cruel of her to say that, but most likely she was being harsh in order to raise the alarm on your video games habits. It is bad parenting though.

You have nofap today. In the future you could also try to give up/minimize video games. Also start going to the gym and, most important commit to at least 3 hours a day of serious study for your school.

There are tons of things that you can start doing to improve your life.

 

And hold to what you have, which is freedom from shame. You have friends, here at least. I have no friends outside my house, my kother and brother are my only friends. If it wasn’t for the all of you here, I would have absolutely no one in my life to understand what I am going through.

 

My mom said that to me too. It hurts especially because i almost loosing my GF whom i have spent the last 5 years , so yeah

Maybe she is trying to change your behaviour by confronting you. Atleast mine is

 

I already went through a similar situation, my mom said that she was corcerned about the fact that I don't go out and have no friends. Was one the most painful things of my life, I almost cried.

 

I literally cut off all my so called "friends" after highschool. Trust me, you're not missing out on anything. I recommend this video for you.

 

Lol, that's a mom for you. She probably didn't mean anything by it. If she only see's you around the house playing video games or what not, what else is she to think. Maybe her saying that was to get you to go out and socialize.

My mom used to tell me I was going to be a good for nothing thug, and that wasn't the worst. But, I didn't take it to heart because I knew she didn't mean it. But, at the time, the way I was living made it seem eminent. But, she helped me turn my life around. So, just know your mom still loves you and wasn't trying to hurt you.

And also, what was the context?