Hello everyone. I am fairly new to the whole new fap thing and I believe it may be just what I needed; I am otherwise really fit and healthy despite these performance issues. I am 22 now and since I was 12, I have been chronically masturbating day in and day out. I believe that this has caused me to have severe performance anxiety. a physical problem that I faced over 10 years is that the shape of my penis actually turned flat over the years of vigorous, fast and hard masturbation and I am afraid that this may affect me severely. I lost virginity in November 2016 and it was kind of bad in a way, I only stayed hard for a several seconds before going limp inside a woman and those days, I was still masturbating constantly. Fast forward to January 2018, I had sex again and pretty much the same thing happened as last time, I went limp real quick but I actually stopped masturbating 2 days before and I still went limp quick. Now fast forward this June 2018, I stopped masturbating for 8 days straight and had the best sex I have had, but it is still not as good as average I believe. I was actually able to keep an erection for an entire 30 minutes and was able to have intercourse all sorts of different positions and I felt great about that mentally but I never felt much stimulus on my penis and I was never able to finish or climax during intercourse but instead, this girl finished me off with her hand and that's when I had an orgasm and finished. Now this month of July, I went 10 days without masturbating and had intercourse again, and although it wasn't as good as the last one as I was limp at first, I was able to get it up after and still perform but poorly and we never reached a climax at all and that makes me feel bad and when she eventually used her hands, they got too sore and it didn't end well; I don't really watch porn but I did lots on that same day before intercourse. Longest I've went with nofap was probably about 20-25 days before I knew what nofap was and since I knew, it was just 10 days. I keep relapsing and edging but I started over again yesterday and wish to continue for at least 6 months, which is my ultimate goal. Now my questions are: 1. Is there hope through nofap that I one I will be able to climax during intercourse despite over 10 years of excessive masturbation and even changing the shape of my penis to a flatter shape? I am just so saddened that I can never finish when having intercourse and I feel doomed. 2. Is it true that delayed ejaculation mean that you have multiple sclerosis or anything very serious or in my case, is it just the excessive masturbation? 3. What else can I do to better myself and finally reach climax during intercourse? I want to say thank you for your time and help.