Hi everyone. Let me introduce myself first. I am 21, about to finish my degree, (it really has been stressful), I work 20-25 hours a week, of split shifts, I train on a bicycle 5 times a week, 1 hour each session, I eat healthily, but also actively looking for a new job in my degree, my mother wants to do natural bodybuilding (I have been thought that when I was 14-19), and I know how much mentality it takes from you, and because that is my only family here (In UK), it is a scaring me. I am on the 70/75 day of no PMO; however, during those days, I have been trying to have sex with my girlfriend. Oral sex was fine; I didn't have trouble; my erection stayed strong. However, when I was putting a condom on, it all went soft (this happened to me a couple of times now - 4/5 times). But all those times it happened, I was under university stress, stress from work, and so on, and I was physically tired from all cycling training. Could this be eat, that I was under so much stress, that my erection went from hard to soft as soon as I wanted to have sex with her, because I have been getting erection when I am with her, and it stays strong? My girlfriend has been supportive and knows my journey of nofap since the day one. We tried sex, but just didn't succeed. Also, on the 7Th of June I will be going away with my girlfriend for one week holiday (7 days), I will finish my university, on the 23rd of May, and the biggest three year stress will be gone, and one week off should mean that I won't be rushing, because other times that I have invited her, we were either working both split shifts on the same, or she was working, and therefore we only had two hours. Also, could anyone say if this is a good suggestion, because it happened to me couple of times where my erection went from hard to soft, should I and my girlfriend skip sex all together for that first night do something different, and on the second try and see what happens? I know I am physically healthy, but I tend to worry about little things often and more than any other person. Please, people let me know if anyone was in the same situation and if you have got any recommendations, because I don't want to take any blue pills to help.