Tools to Success - 24hrs @ a time

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by JR-62, Oct 6, 2019.

  1. Jefe Rojo

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    That’s a great question. I also made it to 99 days and 60 days on separate occasions this year. It’s different for everyone. It does get easier over time but for me I usually have to get around 50 days before it becomes easier. I can tell you that it gets easier and easier. Day 99 was a circumstance where I had left NoFap too early. Dumb mistake. I definitely could have kept going. That 99 day streak was on my first try too!
     
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  2. I'm ready bring on 24 more!
     
  3. But how did you relapse if it does get easier over the time? How did your brain got you bro?

    And holy shit 99 days on first try, wtf, gg.
     
  4. JR-62

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    The strong aren’t strong because they never failed or faltered. But most are great because they once thought they had made it then faltered. Then they picked themselves up and did it all again. So I ask you my friend how bad do you want to be in control of yourself?
     
  5. I don't know actually... I'm kinda confused right now, tomorrow will be my 20 days and it wasn't very hard to get there (and I fapped multiple times everyday for years), probably because i'm in a flatline. But even when I have an urge I managed to control myself and with each passing day I will have less chance of breaking my streak. It's like if my numbers of days were a door proctecting me from my urges, and so my first day my would be like a fragile rotten wooden door barely protecting me, and day 100 would be for example a door of hardened steel, so no matter how hard my urges would kick at the door it could never break, it would just make a lot of noise. That's how I see it.
     
  6. JR-62

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    Well you have a gift then my friend. For the rest of us it is fire with a scab that we want to scratch. For everyone it is different but for me it has been the struggle of a life time, for me it has been like a roller coaster of vial shame and overconfident highs.
     
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  7. JR-62

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    Victory it only one day away. Leave yesterday alone.

    great 24 hrs
     
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  8. Staying busy and focused on healthy habits helps. I picked up guitar and working out again.
     
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  9. JR-62

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    That’s freaking awesome. What songs are you going to learn. I need to learn a new song on my ukulele
     
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    I am trying out some new tools I will keep you all posted
     
  12. This time around I am learning fingerstyle blues.
     
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  13. Ugh the nighttime urges almost made me relapse. I was so close to just typing it out but only entered the 1st 3 letters and nothing of it came up on YouTube. I closed out after that. Now I'm getting to a point where I'm losing sleep.

    Edit because I almost tapped out, I decided the best action is to reset my counter to 0.
     
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  14. Ted 123

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    This would be amazing, and very helpful to everyone I'm sure!!
     
  15. ready for another 24
     
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  16. One day at a time, 24 more here I go
     
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  17. JR-62

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    Had a great 24hrs. I’m looking forward to the next 24
     
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    Okay, you guys I am super excited. I have a new tool that I have just started using and I think it is the thing that is going to get me to a whole new level. I will keep you posted.

    great 24hrs
     
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  19. Ghost237

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    This! This is the biggest thing I tell myself nowadays. Although I’ve only been a nofap member for a few months, I’ve realized that it’s much easier to set small goals (3/7/14/21 days) as opposed to 90 days right out of the gate. There’s a certain sense of pride and success when you hit a goal, therefore the more goals the better IMO
     
  20. What is it?
     

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