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TRANSMUTATION (THINK & GROW RICH)

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by iaj, Jan 22, 2018.

  1. iaj

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    I came across this paragraph today and I had to share it:

    “Lack of controlled sexual urge: Sex energy is the most powerful of all the stimuli which move people into action. Because it is the most powerful, it must be controlled through transmutation and converted into other channels.”

    (Think & Grow Rich)


    It reminded me of something Osho said (if you know Osho?). He mentions that we should replace the word "sex" with "life force." Because life force better explains where we came from. And when you think of the word force, you better understand how and why it drives us.

    So let’s think about that now... Do you want to use up your life force like this? Or would you rather control that energy and use it to propel you in other directions?
     
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  2. Ongoingsupport

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    You don't really have sex with yourself with PMO, it's your mind having sex with the mind of the porn maker through the content they created. This is why people get into chat, to have active participation. But of course that ends up pretty lame, like two people playing out porn authors stories.
     
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  3. iaj

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    Yeah I wasn’t sure about that sentence when I wrote it late last night. I edited it out now. Thanks
     
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  4. SpartanViking

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    This is a very interesting topic but we need to be cautios in order not to fall in dangerous pahts.

    Of course, we don't want to waste our life force in masturbation. What is then the right way of using our life force? Doing two things:
    • Living, that is, attaining resources (food, shelter, clothing), learning, fighting, surviving and...
    • ...impregnating as many women as we can.
    In other words, extending our domain over this galaxy, conquering, influencing others with our ideas and spreading our seed (the information stored in our DNA). That is the right way to use our life force.

    Osho, as many before him, teached people to practice tantra. This word is very complex, but in western society means having sex without ejaculation. There are many schools. Osho's school was about attaining "enlightment" through the "transmutation" of the life force. Without ejaculation, excitement...having coitus in a relaxed way. That is the general idea. Apart from this, there are the majority school of attaining "transmutation" through life-long celibacy.

    The one and the other are against nature and should be avoided at all costs. Extending our information (what is written in our DNA, that is, the information received by our parents and the personal one we added) through all universe is our natural instinct. Stopping us from doing that and letting our seed to stagnate is very sad.

    A last comment on the particular topic of the practice of tantra:
    Women may be able to practice it without a threat to their health, because they are inward beings. They are bowl.
    Men are outward beings, they are bow and arrow, vector, direction. There are many reasons why this practice is very bad for the men's health.

    SpartanViking
     
  5. Could you please develop that thought?
     
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  6. SpartanViking

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    Hello. I suppose you are referring to this:
    Sure, I can do it. I didn't wanted to explain too much because it was outo f the main topic of this thread, and also because I didn't want to promote that kind of practices. If you want, you can contact me privately and I will be glad to talk more in depth.

    In summary, there are three main reasons why tantra, karezza, sexual kung-fu...and all the practices that promote non-ejaculatory and long-lasting intercourse can cause serious troubles.
    1. (For man only) Interrupting (fragmented) urination: This is the most basic practice teached to master those practices. Consits of holding your pee during the process of urination during a few seconds and then releasing it. This is done several times. Supposedly, it helps strengthen the pelvic musles, and can help you to retain your ejaculation. The problem with this is that can derive in problems with the bladder and cause urinary tract infections. Link
    2. (For man only) Blue balls: We fapstronauts know that when you get excited and have several erections in a given period of time, and you not release the life force inside you that wants to impregnate females, you get blue balls. Blue balls is the term referred to the pain cause by the vasocongestion in the sexual organs. The sexual organs (pennis and testicles) get fill with blood when we get excited, and the blood goes away when we ejaculate. Of course, some "enlightened" yogi could explain us that there are techniques to avoid this, but I don't know of any except for ejaculating from time to time.
    3. (For male and female) Loss of lubrication: Having intercourse for hours is one of the main selling characteristics of these practices. Maintaining the excitement for so long will require a constant flow of lubrication. This cannot be avoided because it is nature. You can avoid ejaculating all the semen, but you cannot avoid the lubrication to pour out. This lubrication is part of the semen, is called precum and comes from the bulbo uretral glands. In males, this gland is called Cowper gland for the males, and Bartolini glands for the female. They both do the same, cleaning and lubrication. This liquid is rich in mucoproteins. Imagine what a huge loss of it can cause (no matter how many sperm you retain inside):
    SpartanViking
     

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