transwoman Porn Addiction Please Answer

[Barabba98]

Hi, I'm an italian student, i'm 19 years old.
I'm here to reeboot, but for do it i NEED to tell someone my story.
Before start i should apologise for my english .

I started watching porn al 12-13 years, at the begining it was just occasionally but then it becames more and more frequent. 4 years ago i started watching transgendered person with girl porn. I did it because i hated see man's face in porn. Now i'm just interest in transwoman porn, doesn't matter if there is a girl or not inside. I had some trouble in tring to figure out if I am straight or not, then i realize that it was not a problem, I like trannys and girls, that's all. In the last year i had to improove my time of study and i started to PMO 1 or 2 times a day, i start to feel really depressed. I have a girlfriend and she is very beautifoul and actractive, but in the last months i realize that that's something wrong in my relationship. I discover that porn addicted exist, i dind't event know it!
11 days ago i decided to quit with porn and now i feel better. Quit with porn is one of the best decision i made in my life.

I have to admit that before reading these forums i didn't tink that a lot of guys turned from straight porn to transgendered person or gay porn. Right now i'am so confused about me, it's like I don't know me and wath my sexual tastes are.

I really love my girlfriend and i love have sex with her, but this stuff of transwoman videos for ages has caused me a lot of confusion. Now that i've decided to quit i feel better (and the sex is even more better), but i can't concentrate on the daily activities because i think of porn.

Now some questions
- When i feel the need of PMO what i sould do?
-Have you got concentration problems? How do you act?
-I noticed that many of you that have the same problem say that in real life they would never have sex with a transgendered person, why you like watch this kind of porn?
-in your opinion should I try to figure out if i like transgender in real life?
Do not concentrate just on my questions i would like also to know your general opinion.

Thanks for reading

 

[Alexanderhatespmo]

You developed a sexual fetish do to years of abuse on your brain and in order to seek out more dopamine you turned to more extreme content. This has happened to me and others on here. Do not seek this out in real life. It is 100% unnatural and induced by porn.

When you have urges don’t fight it. Simply acknowledge the feeling and let it pass through you. Think of all the things you gain by doing NOFAP. Don’t ever entertain the thought of going back to PMO even for a second.

The longer you abstain from porn, masterbation, and orgasm, you’ll notice that your concentration will increase astronomically.

Keep abstaining! Eventually your body will heal itself and you will no longer be thinking of porn 24/7. You got this!

 

[Full ahead]

Hi, I'm an italian student, i'm 19 years old.
I'm here to reeboot, but for do it i NEED to tell someone my story.
Before start i should apologise for my english .

I started watching porn al 12-13 years, at the begining it was just occasionally but then it becames more and more frequent. 4 years ago i started watching transgendered person with girl porn. I did it because i hated see man's face in porn. Now i'm just interest in transwoman porn, doesn't matter if there is a girl or not inside. I had some trouble in tring to figure out if I am straight or not, then i realize that it was not a problem, I like trannys and girls, that's all. In the last year i had to improove my time of study and i started to PMO 1 or 2 times a day, i start to feel really depressed. I have a girlfriend and she is very beautifoul and actractive, but in the last months i realize that that's something wrong in my relationship. I discover that porn addicted exist, i dind't event know it!
11 days ago i decided to quit with porn and now i feel better. Quit with porn is one of the best decision i made in my life.

I have to admit that before reading these forums i didn't tink that a lot of guys turned from straight porn to transgendered person or gay porn. Right now i'am so confused about me, it's like I don't know me and wath my sexual tastes are.

I really love my girlfriend and i love have sex with her, but this stuff of transwoman videos for ages has caused me a lot of confusion. Now that i've decided to quit i feel better (and the sex is even more better), but i can't concentrate on the daily activities because i think of porn.

Now some questions
- When i feel the need of PMO what i sould do?
-Have you got concentration problems? How do you act?
-I noticed that many of you that have the same problem say that in real life they would never have sex with a transgendered person, why you like watch this kind of porn?
-in your opinion should I try to figure out if i like transgender in real life?
Do not concentrate just on my questions i would like also to know your general opinion.

Thanks for reading

Hello, my friend. Let me tell you my case.

I started looking for "artistic" erotic pictures in classic paintings, male or female, would not matter. Age? 11-13, or so.
My addiction has kept with me for more than 30 years!, and I discovered I liked transgendered person pics as well as men and women until I met a psychiatrist who said I may be attracted by both sexes...that is not the problem, or it is not a problem, basically speaking. I have had sex with a few and that would not be a problem if was not married and was not hooked in porn. That is THE problem with me. (to be honest, one transgendered person and I became quite close friends until I decided to cut off the relation precisely because I am married and I could not have a lover of any sex, period).

Some of us like to watch this kind of porn because ALL of us, men and women have at some degree part of our sexual behavior part of the other sex (If you want to know more, please read the very serious study about it at https://kinseyinstitute.org/researc...al-report-diversity-of-sexual-orientation.php) That may explain why we feel attracted to she males, I guess.

In other words, you may be straight 100%, bisexual, gay or any other orientation, but what is the cause of several complications is to be hooked into porn or on promiscuous activities (understanding them as having sex with many persons without another purpose than sex by itself)

I can tell you that what I think is the problem, or at least MY problem is: I have been promiscuous regardless if it was with women, or men or she males, and that I have been an addict to porn, be of one kind or another. (there is no such thing as a "worse" behavior watching gay or transgender porn. Promiscuity and porn addiction is a wrong behavior by itself)

..regarding the transgender situation, yes, go ahead and talk with a professional about it. It is not bad by itself to go deeper into that and find out. Again, the problem is promiscuity and addition to porn or masturbation.

Please note this is just my own personal opinion based on my experience, and not a guide for you or advise of any kind. Thanks

 

[LilD]

- When i feel the need of PMO what i sould do?

Talk to someone or do something else which distracts you from thinking about porn. I suggest making a daily plan so that you always have something to do. Also, start a journal here, write about how you feel. Read what other guys do.

-Have you got concentration problems? How do you act?

Yeah, but it's getting better since I started NoFap. I had a relapse recently, but in general, my concentration is better now.

-I noticed that many of you that have the same problem say that in real life they would never have sex with a transgendered person, why you like watch this kind of porn?

I don't know exactly, there are different explanations for that. For me, it just turns me on, and this is all that matters. I don't care why certain genres of porn are more stimulating than others, I just want to quit them all.

-in your opinion should I try to figure out if i like transgender in real life?

It's up to you. Personally, I have no problems with accepting the fact that I might like transsexual girls, but it never happened, so why bother thinking about it? If your relationships with your GF are going well, why do you care?

 

[Barabba98]

Thanks everyone for reply. this is the first time i talk with someone of this topic and i'd like that other people keep writing.

 

[Deleted Account]

My problem is similar, I like transsexual porn, and I used to go out with some transgendered person hookers, and since I started NoFap, I have lot's of urges to see them. Do you guys think it's something in my brain? Like, Im searching for an intense dopamine release, or is it in my nature? Because when I think about sex, the first thing that comes into my mind are transgendered person fantasies. As the years went by, I slowly stopped watching female porn and turned only to transwoman. I can also have sex with women, no problem, but it seems that I live a conflict. I'm not ashamed of it, I don't think it's an healthy habit to sustain, but, what can we do with this sex drive constantly driving us mad?

 

[Full ahead]

My problem is similar, I like transsexual porn, and I used to go out with some transgendered person hookers, and since I started NoFap, I have lot's of urges to see them. Do you guys think it's something in my brain? Like, Im searching for an intense dopamine release, or is it in my nature? Because when I think about sex, the first thing that comes into my mind are transgendered person fantasies. As the years went by, I slowly stopped watching female porn and turned only to transwoman. I can also have sex with women, no problem, but it seems that I live a conflict. I'm not ashamed of it, I don't think it's an healthy habit to sustain, but, what can we do with this sex drive constantly driving us mad?

....Hello. Well I don't think the sex drive is driving you mad... It may sound strange but simply considering the number of transgendered people I would assume there are a lot of men who do like them.