***TRIGGER*** Can't Stop Fanatsizing...

LUKEY_luke

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Every time I see a beautiful I fantasizing about them; I also think I have HOCD, I've fantasized about being with men and have watched gay porn. I have a BDSM and DOM fetish which my girlfriend and I regularly practice. I'm slightly ashamed of these thoughts I have but I can't stop them. Whenever I fantasize about these women I imagine them being tied up and me the dom or vice versa sometimes with men too. Do these stem from exposure to porn? I want to be able to walk around campus and not think about tying all the beautiful girls I see. If any of you have any tips please let me now.

Thank you
 
Every time I see a beautiful I fantasizing about them; I also think I have HOCD, I've fantasized about being with men and have watched gay porn. I have a BDSM and DOM fetish which my girlfriend and I regularly practice. I'm slightly ashamed of these thoughts I have but I can't stop them. Whenever I fantasize about these women I imagine them being tied up and me the dom or vice versa sometimes with men too. Do these stem from exposure to porn? I want to be able to walk around campus and not think about tying all the beautiful girls I see. If any of you have any tips please let me now.

Thank you
All I can say is that you should do things to distract your mind, like hobbies or reading. I wish you the best of luck, though, bro. :emoji_fingers_crossed::emoji_punch::emoji_muscle:
 
I try, but it's walking across campus or waiting in line at the store just everyday locations.
Just try to distract your mind, don't let your mind mess with you like that. Try thinking about stuff that you're into, like hobbies or college or stuff like that.
 
Just try to distract your mind, don't let your mind mess with you like that. Try thinking about stuff that you're into, like hobbies or college or stuff like that.
Every time I think of a woman I'm gonna try to think of the study proving the existence of gravitational waves and see if that works hahaha.
 
Every time I think of a woman I'm gonna try to think of the study proving the existence of gravitational waves and see if that works hahaha.
LOL. Whatever you feel is best to beat down your triggers! :)
 
Put a rubber band round your wrist and snap it hard when you have one of those thoughts, the pain takes your mind off sex immediately
I'm trying to but I associate that snap with subs and whips. I'm trying to find random info like, did you know that broccoli is not a wild plant? Is was selectively bred from wild cabbage.
 
1. Get rid of the cowboy hat. *

*because we all know cowboys leave their fishing rods with the tag still on when they go fishing ;)
 
1. Get rid of the cowboy hat. *

*because we all know cowboys leave their fishing rods with the tag still on when they go fishing ;)
I actually hardly ever wear it. I don't wear it unless I'm going out in which I wear my black felt hat, a rodeo or working with cows I wear my white one in the photo. Every other time I wear my ball cap.
 
On a serious note though, hit the reboot button, do a proper reboot and over time you'll probably figure out where your tastes lie.
 
Like hard mode PMO? I would but I have a gf I guess could edge with her.
Would you be interested in doing a 500+ day NoFap beast challenge? I might set it up later this year. No sex would be allowed in the challenge, by the way.
 
Like hard mode PMO? I would but I have a gf I guess could edge with her.

Yup hard mode is necessary, especially when you're venturing into gay material.

1. Hard mode separates all the crap you're exposed to via porn and your true natural attractions be them straight or gay come to the surface.
2. Once that's become clear you move on from there.

I wouldn't recommend any sexual activity with the missus during this time.
 
Emotional and mental intimacy sounds better [to me], but if you wanna have sex then go for it! :)
I'd say a vehement NO to that. The OP has domination and homosexual fetishes. Clarity only comes during abstinence. Once that goal has been passed you figure out the next steps. IMO.
 
I'd say a vehement NO to that. The OP has domination and homosexual fetishes. Clarity only comes during abstinence. Once that goal has been passed you figure out the next steps. IMO.
When i firsted started one of the stipulations was that I would abstain from BDSM and dom related intercourse. I know she doesn't have a problem stopping because it was my fantasy. Hopefully cutting that out will help.
 
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