***TRIGGER*** Can't Stop Fanatsizing...

tweeby said:
I'd say a vehement NO to that. The OP has domination and homosexual fetishes. Clarity only comes during abstinence. Once that goal has been passed you figure out the next steps. IMO.
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That's true.
 
LUKEY_luke said:
When i firsted started one of the stipulations was that I would abstain from BDSM and dom related intercourse. I know she doesn't have a problem stopping because it was my fantasy. Hopefully cutting that out will help.
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My personal opinion, I don't think it is natural for anyone to have a BSDM fetish be it gay or straight. Well, light bondage is probably exciting, but the porn that we view on the interweb... Not going to mention any triggers, but I'm sure we've all seen those dungeon scenes... pretty much doesn't happen in any relationship.

One party has full dominance over the other and is quite humiliating.

With hardcore NOFAP these fetishes should become less prevalent. However, the homosexual fantasies may or may not be an indication to another sexual leaning you are ultimately unaware of, it could be nothing of course.

But the only way is to remove all the noise 'porn' and then FIGURE it out.

The PURPOSE of nofap is not to deny one's sexuality only to clarify it through the removal of porn and masturbation.
 
Essentially, after a 90 stint you should be so horny to your natural sexual preferences, you will JUST know what it is you like.

No distractions, no external stimulus to trick you.

I mean... you could just find out you really do like hardcore BSDM ;) but I somehow find that unlikely.
 
tweeby said:
Essentially, after a 90 stint you should be so horny to your natural sexual preferences, you will JUST know what it is you like.

No distractions, no external stimulus to trick you.

I mean... you could just find out you really do like hardcore BSDM ;) but I somehow find that unlikely.
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500 days would be amazing for anyone to do, just saying.
 
tweeby said:
LOL let's learn to walk before we can run, it took me ages to make 30 days.

If anyone can do 500 days off the bat they must be God.
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Since I'm currently going to school five days a week, it wouldn't be hard. I even have a few mental tricks to soften up my erection if I ever get them.
 
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