1. Welcome to NoFap! We have disabled new forum accounts from being registered for the time being. In the meantime, you can join our weekly accountability groups.
    Dismiss Notice

Trigger Warning: Is there a specific porn weakness you have?

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Eviledging, Sep 4, 2017.

  1. Eviledging

    Eviledging Fapstronaut

    121
    66
    28
    when we talk porn addictions we tend to generalize it as just "porn". But do u know your exact scene or type that is your weak spot? If so what is it?

    *trigger below****

    Mine tends to be babysitter/schoolgirl themes (including outfits and attitudes)and facial compilations so I try to focus on staying away from those specific areas
     
    Last edited by a moderator: Sep 5, 2017
    Millenial likes this.
  2. Millenial

    Millenial Fapstronaut

    227
    585
    93
    You should add a Spoiler when posting triggering material:
    Use the + icon in the toolbar.
     
    Got to Overcome likes this.
  3. Eviledging

    Eviledging Fapstronaut

    121
    66
    28
    Thanks I didn't know how to do that
     
    Millenial likes this.
  4. Cybersex, craigslist hookers and abuse fetish.

    Cant get near any of it or its an instant relapse.
     
  5. peter311

    peter311 Fapstronaut

    14
    9
    3
    Does free/expensive make difference? You will not be addicted if you had to pay for membership with your credit card? If all the sites started charging...wouldn't that help?
     
  6. Cams, because it is live (real time), amateur (mostly) and you can suspend your disbelief that they are there just for you.
     
    AM141 likes this.
  7. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

    1,970
    1,476
    143
  8. MarinoBigFan1984

    MarinoBigFan1984 Fapstronaut

    1,970
    1,476
    143
  9. Got to Overcome

    Got to Overcome Fapstronaut

    273
    292
    63
    Even better is to stay away from all porn, as you then won't need to worry about watching whatever genre your "weak spot" happens to be.

    Also, with all due respect, what is the point of this thread? I can't really see it turning into anything but a collection of triggers, which isn't exactly what a bunch of PMO addicts need.
     
    mihmihero, Lilla_My, Reborn16 and 2 others like this.
  10. gio1715

    gio1715 Fapstronaut

    47
    168
    33
    Yes this thread seems a little dangerous since we are trying to completely forget about what it is that's ruined most of our lives.Careful with what you post and read my friends.God bless you all
     
    Reborn16 and Got to Overcome like this.
  11. Eviledging

    Eviledging Fapstronaut

    121
    66
    28
    Because if u can't admit it recognize your triggers and just generalizing it as an addiction to porn makes recovery that less effective. It's like saying I'm addicted to crack therefore I'm never using and drugs even cold medicine cause it may trigger.. or I have a weakness to cheeseburgers and they make me fat so I'm not ever eating any food again.

    People have said porn is anything u use that gets u off but it is so general that some people on this board end up running away from everything with their eyes closed in fear they may find something that may trigger them!!!

    Know and explain ur triggers will keep u focused on pinpointing ur weaknesses while still going out and enjoying hills
     
    battleready likes this.
  12. Eviledging

    Eviledging Fapstronaut

    121
    66
    28
    * life not hills
     
  13. Third_Eye

    Third_Eye Guest

    Sadly, I have a fetish of girls peeing on the toilet and girls peeing in general :(.
     
  14. eadgbe

    eadgbe Fapstronaut

    Basically anything with a submissiveness/domination component in it. The more twisted it was, the more I'd get off on it. I think that stems from my confidence issues.
     
    lceres6 likes this.
  15. Got to Overcome

    Got to Overcome Fapstronaut

    273
    292
    63
    I see what you're saying, but I think this thread could have been done without asking people to list their favorite porn genres. Perhaps you could have stated the importance of identifying specific areas of weakness rather than generalizing it all as porn and then recommending people approach it as a battle against whatever that specific area is rather than as a battle against PMO.

    Anyhow, I'm not here to criticize you, but we have all come here for support in our struggle. My honest opinion is that a thread which asks people to list their favorite types of porn is going to do more harm than good. But again, I don't want to come across as critical, as I've come here to both receive help and encouragement and to offer help and encouragement, and I wouldn't want to discourage you or anyone else from posting and taking part in the community and doing everything they can to help others. My only advice is to think carefully about wording and whether what you post is going to build others up or tear them down.
     
  16. Eviledging

    Eviledging Fapstronaut

    121
    66
    28
    Great thing about a thread post with a trigger button is nobody has to read it nor respond if they chose not to. I appreciate your input but we will leave the thread as is.
     
  17. Kristen

    Kristen Fapstronaut

    25
    10
    3
    I don't think I have a porn problem although I do liketi watch it from time to time mine is more obsessive masterbation. If I had to pinpoint the weakness I'd say the power and control factor where either the man or female is in control
     
  18. Got to Overcome

    Got to Overcome Fapstronaut

    273
    292
    63
    Well, had you posted a trigger warning from the start, I never would have clicked on it. However, I understand that you didn't know how to do that, so I appreciate you taking the time to go back and do it.

    Fair enough. If you think this thread is going to help others, then so be it. I disagree, but there are lots of people on this site, and we're certainly not going to agree on everything.
     
  19. Millenial

    Millenial Fapstronaut

    227
    585
    93
    The thread creator can go to thread tools/edit title and add a trigger warning.
    This site has got a lot of useful features that are not always used.
     
  20. nofepper

    nofepper Fapstronaut

    221
    177
    43
    only anal and all sub genres of it
     

Share This Page