I know the fundamentals of nofap. I've been free of porn and masturbation for about 1 month now. I started watching porn at about age 11, and I would use magazine clips years before that. So I understand it will take much longer to rewire my brain. But I can't help but ask for reassurment. *19 y/o now* I've *attempted* to fool around with this girl for a while now. First time, I was under the influence, so I figured that was due to that. The second time I was under the influence of a psychoactive, so I assumed that was also understandable (my penis was grey when I looked at it). We tried again a few days later, still mission failed. That was 1 year ago. *3 months ahead* I meet a different girl, not much of my type but we hook up anyway. She isn't that pretty, or fit or any thing that I'm into. Buuut, I had a decent erection. Enough to get the job done. She claims she's bisexual but never had sex with a guy. "Stop! It hurts, I'm sorry I can't" she says GAME OVER. *Fast forward to now* Still a virgin (1 month into nofap) We try again. Watched a movie and Had some foreplay during. Then got busy after it was over. buuuuuut Mission failed. We are extremely comfortable around each other. Still not dating but we act like it. No anxiety or pressure. I'm going to continue nofap. But I'm scared I will have this problem for many months to come. Sorry before hand for any spelling errors. Im in a rush.