Something I've struggled with over the last week or so, I started NF and came to a bit of a conclusion that if I got to 30 days I'd open up to my wife about the problem. At least then I could say I was doing something to fix it as well. However, in the last month a lot has opened up inside of me and while it's made things make sense to me and given me all the reasons I needed to keep this going, it would hurt so many people if I opened up to people I care about. I've thought about how I could be honest (ish) with my wife and keep some parts locked away, but I can't see a good way to explain it all without it all coming out. It's all linked back to childhood and family stuff, and then the things I've been involved in since I would say are unforgivable. I've had a lot of this stuff buried inside for some time and I've accepted and came to terms with it all. So, for myself I don't think I need to talk about it anymore than I have. What is best.. a lie (keeping a secret) that protects those I love or a truth that hurts everyone?