An update regarding your progress may be helpful. You originally posted back in March. Have you been PMO free since you posted in March or do you continue to indulge? If they have been relapses, tell us about how often you have relapsed and the duration of those relapses. e.g. do you relapse every week or every month etc., do you binge on porn for days or has you relapses been short. If you have relapsed, can you maintain an erection while you engage in PMO?
I am trying to assess how much of an impact porn is still having on your life. If you are still a regular user then PIED is a common side effect. A big part of you getting aroused is mental. And porn totally messes with your mind. Then you add in anxiety and this makes the situation even more challenging.
Tell us how you have been progressing with NoFap.