Trying still to kill any disgusting want for sex.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by washerebefore1983, Sep 22, 2019.

  1. washerebefore1983

    washerebefore1983 Fapstronaut

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    Sex to me is disgusting and downright a dumb waste of time and it confuses me how others are the opposite. To me the want is just not normal and is disgusting. I neither need it nor does it do anything for me. I don't even really consider testosterone exactly completely normal.

    I went 27 to 28 days without it and that is after not going but 7 days to 4 days for the last nearly a year or so. I get so tired of these idiots pushing this testosterone increase pill nonsense and my reaction to those ads are like just go to hell you idiots. Im hopefully making progress and luckily am 36 going on 37 so this unwanted burden will go away more and more luckily if I can't get medicine for this to destroy and want for sex.
     
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  2. Blackadder2549

    Blackadder2549 Fapstronaut

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    Sex itself is perfectly fine, we need it to reproduce and continue humanity. However, masturbation and porn addiction is really detrimental to your physical and mental health, so abstaining from it is key.
     
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  3. washerebefore1983

    washerebefore1983 Fapstronaut

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    I find all forms of sex honestly repulsive. I hate any want for it just gross and to me it's all just a gross exercise routine.
     
  4. Removing-Desire

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    I felt like with pmo I was worshiping women..and was part of a mindless community. Stay strong my brothers!
     
  5. Removing-Desire

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    Yes;however the human population isn’t going down anytime soon..I can’t even imagine how many children are conceived even at this very moment.
     
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  6. PMOare4SoyBoys

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    If you find sex that repulsive then you must hardly ever have any of the urges/symptoms we all experience when it comes to PMO which is pretty great if you ask me, you've already won half the battle without even trying. You are a God amongst the gods you should be proud of yourself for accomplishing such an amazing feat...
     
  7. ZenAF

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    The dude has psychological issues, can hardly call that an accomplishment.

    @washerebefore1983 You've been traumatized, probably as a child. To call something disgusting is to protect yourself from it, make borders around yourself. Hitler called the Jews disgusting and compared them to disgusting things, like rats and insects. You seem to have the same conception towards sex, which isn't natural or healthy for you. Imho you should see a therapist about it because chances are this defensive attitude will take over other areas in your life that you're not comfortable with.
     
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  8. PMOare4SoyBoys

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    There was some slight sarcasm in my post but I suppose that didn't deliver as well as I thought...
     
  9. Removing-Desire

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    I don’t think he understands the difference between procreation and just having mindless intercourse for its own sake. Together. We. Stand.
     
  10. PMOare4SoyBoys

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    I think regardless whether it's for procreation or not, there isn't really much of a point to express how disgusting he finds sex to be.
     
  11. You say sex is disgusting and repulsive but you seem to be obsessed with it and can’t stop doing it. If I were you I’d seek professional help immediately.
     
  12. washerebefore1983

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    Actually there are weeks where I dont even think about it at all so nope not obsessed.
     
  13. washerebefore1983

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    My suggestion is to try to read up on the word asexual instead of acting threatened by someone who despises sex and bullying someone for being different. :)
     
  14. ZenAF

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    We're human beings, which means we have certain ways of living that are given. We like to eat, fuck, laugh, be fascinated, grow. When you got someone who doesn't like to eat and eats very little, you don't go "oh you're just a little different than the rest of us and that's ok. :)"
    You should instead try to figure out what's wrong, because it's not normal. And no, not everything that's not normal is pathological. But when it concerns the most basic of human needs, like wanting sex, it most certainly is. Especially if you feel repulsion towards it.
    Wanting sex is not a "taste" like liking ice cream. Wanting sex is one of the most basic drives that dictates a ridiculous amount of our thinking, behavior and decision making. When you don't want it at all, there's something wrong. If you're disgusted by it, which is an over-extended auto-immune response, which means your biology classifies it as danger, there's something really wrong. Can you still enjoy your life? Of course, just not as much as other people.

    So I don't consider telling somebody who got serious issues to go see a therapist as bullying. I consider it an attempt to help somebody to reach their full potential, for their own sake and societies sake.
     
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  15. That doesn’t mean there isn’t a problem. I used to go weeks without watching P or PMO. Wouldn’t have urges for long stretches sometimes. But it’s still a huge problem for me. Doesn’t mean I wasn’t addicted.
     
  16. I’m reading a book about sex and addiction. It states that asexuality could be a result of someone being completely out of touch with their own sexuality.

    One doesn’t need to have sex or be sexual or M or be in a romantic relationship to be in touch with their own sexuality.

    And someone who says that they’re disgusted by sex and/or hates it has an unbalanced view of sex and sexuality.

    Underlying these thoughts is a positive intention: one is searching for and wants something to help them feel complete but doesn’t know how to find it.

    I’m not bullying you and I mean no offense. I’m simply trying to be helpful. If my posts aren’t helpful to you then I’m sorry. I can only suggest what has been helpful to me bc that’s all that I have experience with.
     
  17. washerebefore1983

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    Truth be is that Im very happy when I dont get such urges and my question is, did I ever tell you to find sex repulsive? No I never did and never would because if you want to do it, do it but nothing you say is gonna change myself. I don't feel Im missing anything at all by avoiding sex of any kind the best I can. I have a doctor who supports me being asexual and was understanding of it, yes I have a therapist who supports how I feel also and yes even my family supports my asexual part of me too. I don't get anything out of what you apparently think is normal and I should be a part of.
     
  18. washerebefore1983

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    I get that it's hard for some to understand why anyone would be against any form of sex at all on themselves and repulsed by it. I get that most are like why. I realize to some it may seem one is unhappy or not okay but to me what is not okay is when urges appear here and there and the expectation by some to be sexual when it's not what I desire is wrong to me. I see a woman, I don't think about sex with them at all and never did even in high school.
     
  19. alexg1709

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    What about intimacy and love with a partner?

    Sex is just a part of the equation and you will be missing out on a most important aspect of life which is love and companionship.

    I cannot imagine any doctor supporting that view on life because it leads to being lonely and depressed.

    Good luck man hope you get to the bottom of it
     
  20. washerebefore1983

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    I am not depressed with sex. I'm also not lonely either. Love and sex are 2 different things in my opinion.
     

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