Hey everyone, I'm in my mid-30s and married to a beautiful woman. I've recently been having trouble getting/staying erect and it's causing me and my wife serious problems. I basically am "not in the mood." Obviously, something isn't right. I would rather view porn and masturbate than have sex. That's fucked up. The thing is, my porn usage hasn't escalated or changed for many years. Basically, I masturbate a few times a week and my wife and I have sex 1-2x/week on average. I would masturbate daily or maybe 2x daily when I'm totally alone. I think the novelty of the girls I can view on the internet is alluring. I have always been a novelty seeker and was extremely promiscuous prior to meeting my wife. I'm sure it's all related and I'm trying to figure it out. I want to give this a try, because ultimately having a good life/happy marriage is worth it.