Ughhh, I can't stop thinking about having sex off of my head :(

Deleted Account · Feb 9, 2017

Why, why, why?

All I care about sex is to squeeze girl's tits in-person, that's it.

Yes, I do come here and create threads alot because I'm lousy but there is something going on with me every time I'm still on the process to reboot myself. I ain't virgin anymore but god dang, I just don't know to stop thinking about sex and squeeze tits.

Any advice?

Kalito · Feb 9, 2017

Fasting, Meditation, Exercise, Productivity.

NoMoreFap2012 · Feb 9, 2017

I just joined nofap and same is with me. I cant stop thinking about sex and boobs(im virgin). last night i decided i will replace my thoughts and it was so good, i slept very nicely and i dreamt about ufos and all that. Seriously mate, changing thoughts worth so much

Deleted Account · Feb 10, 2017

Kalito said: ↑

Fasting, Meditation, Exercise, Productivity.
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Thanks!

noonoon · Feb 10, 2017

Exercise. How serious are you? Ask yourself. If very serious you'll get the discipline needed. Run. Miles. If necessary. Trust me. If you r tired enough, the desire will lessen. You can start by making an a agreement with yourself to do push-ups every time you seriously struggle.

Deleted Account · Feb 18, 2017

I. Cannot. Stop. Thinking. About. This.

I Free I · Feb 18, 2017

Kalito said: ↑

Fasting, Meditation, Exercise, Productivity.
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The Truth .

Folarin · Feb 18, 2017

m_brando said: ↑

My friend, you're brainwashed by a confused, repressive, infantilized society that can't grow past an immature fixation. Your brain was programmed by the stimulation of PMO (dopamine rewards, just like any classical conditioning) and being bombarded with other sexualized images of women. Take your brain back.

*****

11/4/2010 Broadblogs

Men aren’t hard wired to find breasts arousing?

No.

And how do we know this?

The same way we discover that many things aren’t biologically-based. By learning about other cultures. And the breast fetish does not exist in them all.

Men and women both resist the claim until they’re reminded of tribal societies. We’ve all seen pictures from National Geographic. And we all know that among tribal people women’s breasts are no big deal.

By the mid-1980s, topless beaches and overexposure to nudity in advertising had a similar effect in Europe. Topless women were plastered all over billboards, magazine and television advertisements because both men and women looked. But by the mid-eighties, no one paid much attention anymore. It was all so blasé. European men studying in the U.S. asked why American men were so obsessed with nudity. What’s the big deal, they wondered.

Even men who are overexposed to porn can lose interest, according to Pamela Paul, who has studied porn’s effect on male sexual arousal. As one man put it,

At first, I was happy just to see a naked woman. But as time has gone on I’ve grown more accustomed to such things.

Now he seeks more extreme stuff.

Meanwhile, studies show that even women learn the breast fetish.

How odd. Breasts turn on Western women, but not tribal men? And hetero women get more aroused by a nude woman than by a nude man?

Fetishes are created by selectively hiding and revealing — making that which is hidden enticing. Both men and women become intrigued. (Women do experience all this a bit differently from men, which I’ll discuss later.)

Meanwhile, a student of mine lived in Iran after the Islamic revolution when women strictly covered themselves except for the face. She told me that every now and again she would pull her veil back a little and watch the men go wild over her “hair cleavage.”

In America around the turn of the last century even seeing an ankle was sexy because they were always covered. In some old family photos one of my grandmothers is pulling her skirt up above her ankle to look scandalously sexy. I couldn’t even comprehend what she was doing until someone explained.

Covering is captivating. If you see the same thing all the time, it’s no big deal.

We always hear that “men are visual” (but that women are not). This isn’t based in biology. Men learn to become visual, while hetero women are left with nothing acceptable to look at. Culturally, we don’t sexualize the male body.

The fetish feels real enough, but then, much of what is learned feels biological.

As we shall see, all this can heighten bedroom excitement. Or it can have the opposite effect. More later…

Does Sexual Objectification Lead to Bad Sex?
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Thank you this helped

Horus1335 · Feb 25, 2017

Just let yourself feel that way. Let the thoughts pass and don't think too much about trying to suppress those thoughts because by doing that it's like giving a celebrity bad publicity. Your still giving it publicity and allowing it to control how you feel more than you should.

Aiyoshi · Feb 25, 2017

Accept it and transform into something productive.

Deleted Account · Mar 14, 2017

Oh god, here I go again. Couldn't quit thinking about boobs in my head and now I'm going to do something to get it off of my head.

Waldo101 · Mar 14, 2017

Calm down horny rabbit!

Folarin · Mar 14, 2017

You need to remind yourself of how awful you feel after you fall and stopping now would cancel all the progress you've made so far!! That's what works for me and I do push-ups or go out where I will run into people.

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