Unexpected issue

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by rocketmonkey, Dec 4, 2015.

  1. rocketmonkey

    rocketmonkey Fapstronaut

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    This is my 6th day of nonfapping and besides the growing hornyness, I managed to not watching porn or indulging in masturbation. I haven't had so many morning woods as I was expecting but I believe that it is normal at this early stage..the funny thing is that I have been asked out by a pretty girl this weekend. We both like each other and I do feel that there is a palpable sexual tension and it is quite likely that we will end up in bed after the date.

    So, my concern is should I fuck her or it counts as a relapse. I could wait but I can't just tell her " I need to check my agenda, I can fuck you in two weeks time"...If you have experienced something similar, please share your thoughts. Thank you!
     
  2. PureStrength

    PureStrength Fapstronaut

    Depends what your goals are. Are you wanting to just quite porn and masturbation or sex all together for a given period? If it's just porn and masturbation personally I don't see it as a problem as long as it's going to be a healthy relationship between you and the girl which is going to go somewhere. If it's going to be just for sex then this will have a detrimental effect on and you and you will most likely get strong cravings to masturbate and watch porn when she is not around for example.
     
  3. rocketmonkey

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    Thanks for your reply. yep, I am a little bit hesitant since I am not sure if having sex would strenghten the creavings. My goal is quit porn and get rid of the masturbation habits, yet I am not sure if it would be too early since I have just started my nofap journey. I will think about.
     
  4. rigiddan

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    Putting it off could serve to intensify the desire which might make it more special or pleasurable in the long run.
     
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  5. rocketmonkey

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    Yep, I know what you mean. Thing is I am incredibly horny, despite I started 5 days ago. I would prefer refrain to ejaculate but I already know that I am not strong enough to decline the carnal temptations of a pretty lady. It’s so strange, the more you try to commit, the more they will try to undermine your resolutions
     
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  6. rocketmonkey

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    So last night, I met the girl and after few drinks she invited me over for a cup of tea. I was horny as a teenager but I wanted to keep my semen in balls, so I pleased here with my mouth. I told her that I was refraining from cum for at least one month and the funny thing is that it made her just hornier. She told that she was so impressed (she is 26 and she touches herself everyday) from my determination that in a month time, she is going to give me the best sex ever…..rather unexpected. This is definitely a good reward and a valid motivation. However, I got a terrible case of blue balls, I need to buy more ice.
     
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  7. rigiddan

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    Did you get some relief from blue balls?
     
  8. yousuff

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    If your addiction lasted for more than 10 years and You just started to get yourself rid out of it then I think it would not be a wise idea to be mingled and have sex with girls because you may end up with some unexpected spinoffs that only long your journey to free from PMO devil.
     

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