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Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Helpmeout123, Jul 30, 2019.

  1. Helpmeout123

    Helpmeout123 Fapstronaut

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    Hi all! I would like a bit of guidance as I am fairly new to Nofap!

    For my entire life, I have only ever been able to O by using my hand and struggled to stay hard during intercourse. I came across Nofap and decided to give it a go.

    Today is day 13 and I am already seeing improvements. I am able to maintain an erection during sex with my girlfriend and have been able to O twice from oral (this is something I’ve also never been able to do). I am very happy with the progress so far and can tell my girlfriend is enjoying sex again.

    My question is, will I eventually be able to O off sex if I continue with Nofap?

    We want to have children eventually so obviously it’s an issue that needs to be sorted.
     
  2. Environmental Specialist

    Environmental Specialist Fapstronaut

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    I am exactly in your spot brother. From my understanding yes, we shall be able to orgasm during sex after a period of Nofap, just be patient. Me and wifey want to try for kids too but it is so embarrassing. I am just on day 3 but I can already feel the difference, but I don't want to rush and harm my self-confidence. I am going to complete the nofap challenge for atleast 90 days.
     
  3. Helpmeout123

    Helpmeout123 Fapstronaut

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    At first she was impressed at how long I can go, now it’s just annoyinh
     
  4. Environmental Specialist

    Environmental Specialist Fapstronaut

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    Yeah, we have had heated arguments about this. And it's worse when she starts doubting that the problem may lie with her and not me.
     
  5. Helpmeout123

    Helpmeout123 Fapstronaut

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    Same. She thinks I’m not sexually attracted to her and it’s now become an issue
     
  6. Environmental Specialist

    Environmental Specialist Fapstronaut

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    That's why it is very important to make the partner aware of the problem. Bcoz otherwise, we keep digging ourselves deeper into the well of self-doubt. Any sort of encouragement from the partner is worth it's weight in gold at this stage.
     

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