urge = failure -> sooner or later?!

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by _overcomer_, Jan 6, 2020.

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  1. _overcomer_

    _overcomer_ Fapstronaut

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    Hi,

    some days I really feel very strong, and think that I will not faile
    Then from one to another moment the urge is so strong, that I want to POM.

    Sometimes I'm strong enough to "handle the urge" for the moment, but I know (like inside me) that I will do it later... .

    I mean I cant complete be victory about an urge... why?
    SOmetimes when the urge is strong in the evening I can handle ist but faile in the morning... .

    O my, thats so bad.
     
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  2. Ogikubo

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    Stop fighting so hard. In emergencies, people are always told: Don't panic.
    So, relax. Breathe. Listen to your breath and your heart. Repeat as often as necessary.
     
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    _overcomer_ Fapstronaut

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    okay!
     
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  5. blademaster87

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    No, that's lack of faith in your willpower. Sometimes the fight is won by an inch, that's all. You've made it. Yesterday I don't really know what stopped me from relapsing. You have to understand that these moments will come and you have to remain calm when they do. Stay steady.
     
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    Thanks!!
     

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