Urges after 30 days??

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Destroyer of PMO, Jul 31, 2020.

  1. Destroyer of PMO

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    I am at day 34, and just recently out of nowhere I began to have huuuuge urges, I was studying and just BOOM! huge urge. Thankfully my devices have restrictions enabled and google safe search is locked, so it did safe me.
    But I am just curious on why does this happen??
    Is it because connections to porn are beginning to die??
    Is it normal??
    Is my brain reseting??
    Will the urges ever stop??

    I also kind of was expecting this because in my last streaks I have relapsed between the days 35 and 45. So I am just curious. And in my opinions weeks 1-2 and 4-5 are the hardest. What do you think?
     
  2. You're going to need to be strong my brother, Keep thinking do I really want to do those first 30 days over again?When you build to 90 days, that thought will save you. My streak started last April(2019) went 150 days then I reset, and doing that over again sucked. For me the most difficult time was the first 2-3 days of my streaks.
     
  3. Destroyer of PMO

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    Mmm I mean it was just weird you know? Like these past day honestly I havent had any urge, just like today and it was a big. That’s what struck me. I also have had 2 wet dreams in this streak hahahaha.
     
  4. Unfortunately I feel like the reality is that we're going to have a desire until we find the right girl to keep our minds occupied/take care of urges for us. that said the increasing levels of confidence you're probably starting to feel should help in that regard.
     
  5. Maybe you've seen some things that have triggered you?
     
  6. Greenarrow1159

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  7. You know thinking this over last night, how are you managing testosterone?During a reboot, we're not disposing of testosterone every day or 2 through M, so it's a good idea to do some cardio, to burn the testosterone, it doesn't exactly work like that biologically but it does help to channel that energy if that makes sense.
     
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  8. Destroyer of PMO

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    I workout 4-5 days a week. Also like in past days I honestly didn't have any urges, just yesterday. Anyway, the urge is now gone and didn’t relapse. Having restrictions on my devices has been lofe saver.
     
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  9. Destroyer of PMO

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    Mmm yeah possibly.
     
  10. Greenarrow1159

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    On day three and I almost relapsed due to a music video my idiotic self even slowed down the video so I can see the girls betterI’m treading dangerous waters, I exited the tab after watching seven videos in slo-mo it’s a miracle I didn’t relapse, I don’t know why I do this to myself I relapsed once due to YouTube a while back your strong man honestly never gone over six days. Not worth the ten seconds I swear six days w/o porn it will take six seconds and boom you relapsed and feel like nooooooo! Wasn’t worth six seconds and you also feel like you lost your powers or sexual energy which is powerful and what once radiated now is gone. And you get this gut feeling that almost makes you sick
     
  11. Steppingintotheunkown

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    You have described relapsing perfectly.
     
  12. Steppingintotheunkown

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    I almost gave in last night, I went into a chatroom and tried speaking to a few people, luckily no one responded thank goodness. After 20 minutes I thought what the hell am I actually doing. I left the chatroom and re enabled my restrictions. I am so glad I did, I get to keep this streak and continue. I almost lost my precious streak.
     
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  13. HelpMeDESU!

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    I too had minor urges a few days ago, I am glad that it went away. If you think more about the urge you might actually end up doing PMO. Try to keep your self occupied with non PMO stuff, that's the only thing that you can currently do.
     

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