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Using loneliness as something POSITIVE

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Heelhook, Oct 9, 2017.

  1. Heelhook

    Heelhook Fapstronaut

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    After months of struggling with loneliness i just accepted my faith, i will be alone and thats it. After that statement i tought how can i use this in my benefit? Well that is pretty damn easy just use that free time you have on your own you can do whatever you want. So i made a promise to myself to be productive in the spare time i have so i can benefit from it in my later stages of life.

    Anyone else has the same opinion?
    Share it in the comments

    Many thanks
    Heelhook
     
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  2. Bale

    Bale Fapstronaut

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    I don't think it's anyone's fate to be alone. However it is everyone's responsibility to change what they want to change in their life. And it's not that easy to assimilate. So yeah, use more of your time towards achieving your goals, and also use more of your time to do things that will indirectly improve your quality of life (meditate, travel, enjoy life...).

    We are born alone and we die alone. What we do in between is up to us. However, companionship can really make a positive difference in our lives, so don't dismiss it just because you faced some setback.
     
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  3. Kexas23

    Kexas23 Fapstronaut
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    I agree with Bale. I've thought I would be alone forever, and while I am still alone in this world I have optimism that it won't be like that forever.
     
    Last edited: Oct 11, 2017
  4. Scared Human

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    Fuck that. We have the power to control our lives. The past has no impact on the present even though it might look that way. Seriously, fuck that sentence, get it out of your head
     
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  5. Tron22

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    I know this idea of just giving up is atractive to you especialy when you feel down. And sometimes it is good to take a break from people. But I dont think it will last forever.

    I said to myself that so many times. But reality will always hit back. There are some natural desires that are just very hard to fight off.
     
  6. noonoon

    noonoon Fapstronaut

    I like it. Work on making yourself a better person and when/if that special someone comes around, you'll be ready.
     

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