Using Porn without Masturbation to Motivate Yourself?

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by meonzo, Jul 15, 2018.

Using Porn without Masturbation to Motivate Yourself?

  1. If I do it in right way I can Still Motivate Myself and achieve my biggest dreams.

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    1.6%
  2. It's not the right approach.

    61 vote(s)
    98.4%
  1. meonzo

    meonzo New Fapstronaut

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    I tried it 3 times transmuting energy that I got from porn, it works in start, but after few days I end up masturbating it doesn't work for long the energy( or the urges) become too high, I was curious about transmuting that sexual energy into my work. As I heard about this transmutation in various places like in the Book Think And Grow Rich maybe I'm doing it in the wrong way, but now I decided not to do it again, I think it's a useless way because every time our brain want more of sexual energy due to desensitising of dopamine receptors so you end up wanting more and more hardcore things which leads to fapping. Although because of it for few days I took real actions and got so much of my work done but I'm very imbalanced after trying it.
     
  2. Vandermeer

    Vandermeer Fapstronaut

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    Doesn´t work. The sexual fantasizing and images will occupy and distract your mind all the time, because you keep yourself in a permanent horny state, not allowing to relief yourself. It´s better to shoot off then and instead stay clean for at least a whole week, because then you will notice the benefits and become motivated to go for longer periods.
     
  3. ivanhoe

    ivanhoe Fapstronaut

    Yep. you're bathing your brain in dopamine. i agree, at least initially to unload that energy and get in a non-sexual state. Then cultivate other ways to relieve stress and find joy.
    I have found when I am strongly spiritually connected sex stuff just isn't there.
     
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  4. theoptimist

    theoptimist Fapstronaut

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  5. I share the view Vandermeer and you said in your poll, "it's not the right approach". Sex is an instinct/emotion. So then unlike porn addiction reboot, "semen retention" practice becomes a very much mental/psyche practice.

    Stress can kill you, anger actually boils your blood, depression actually affects (kills some of) the bacterial flora in your intestines, just imagine what subconsciouss and consciouss horny thoughts can do when you do not release it.

    Should you masturbate without porn, while also practicing non-lustful thoughts through daily life? Well the actuall physical act creates 'sexual hormones' which awaken sexual thoughts in you. Which you need to 'endure mentally' while they are purified out of your system.
    So it's like a cycle.
    Porn or masturbation create Horny residue physically and mentally. Which you then need to endure but they make you so horny that it makes you do some more of those 2, then you are even hornier.
    It's a cycle you need to brake.


    Mental purity in daily life. Beauty is a mental projection. Do not allow yourself to rape women or see them unclothed in your mind. That is greatly immoral!

    If you must see them unclothed, uncloth them fully! Notice their fat. Imagine how their ass smells when they are on the toilet. Uncloth them of their skin. See the yellow fatty deposits. See their weeks old excrement in their intestinal walls they accumulated because they didn't exercise and consumed 'food' and juices almost dead. Uncloth them of their flesh and see how their skeleton looks like when they walk. Hunched back like a hobit from lord of the rings. See them for what they are. Truth prevails
     
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  6. Not gonna work because no one peeks and gets away with it. Seriously. So stop kidding yourself and just let the sexual energy pent up naturally and you’re gonna do semen retention anyways so just let it come naturally and then transmute then. In the mean time, you can eat clean and healthy and add some herbal supplements if you want to do something.
     
  7. Magah2771

    Magah2771 New Fapstronaut

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    I used to edge before in previous streaks . It made me watch porn for hours but I wouldn’t O eventually the next few days I would relapse so, man don’t do it ,focus your energy in something productive.
     

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