(Venting) Sometimes not having a gf makes me depressed...

Same here brother, but it's the actions that count ask 10 girls 9 might reject but 1 will definitely accept, you have got to make the move that's it.

 

Your Attitude , It sounds like you have some very positive stuff going on, so whats stopping you? Well with the limited amount you wrote i can only guess the following
- You DONT ASK THEM OUT or you overthink doing that, or your waiting for them to ask you out which hardly ever happens to often or ever
- You put women on a pedestal as perfect - which not true NO ONE IS PERFECT no matter how built they are
- Your a people pleaser which definitely turns women off ,THEY WANT YOU TO BE REAL NOT A FAKE SPINELESS PEOPLE PLEASER

You tell me does any of the above sound familiar ?

 

Absolutely, I had the exact same problem. Within three months of actively putting myself out there and making an effort to ask out a girl I liked, I am in a very happy relationship. Also, before taking this decision I noticed how much of a people pleaser I was and made active efforts to change my personality.

Your opinion's on point, based on my personal experience as well.

 

It's okay to feel this way I guess. I was the only single guy in all of my Friends' circle for a really long time. It felt pretty fuckall.

For me what helped was to acknowledge this feeling, not judge it and treat it like any other problem. What's the best I can do to solve this problem now? (i.e what's the best I can do to get a girlfriend?). I tried to give more time to this girl I liked. Tried spending more time with her. When I felt she reciprocated the attention, I asked her out.

Just keep trying your best without obviously sacrificing your career or other relationships/friendships over it.

When you do find the right person, you'll realise that she was worth the wait.