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Very low self esteem

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Jul 5, 2020.

  1. Unfortunately I am not getting better. I keep on thinking that there is more willpower that I have to combat this problem but I am not seeing it with my keen eye. I know my mind is my harness to my body. I am not having decent streaks anymore with this site since the start of this year when I was put in the hospital. My motivation and self esteem is very low at this point. I have had a fever and sore throat again and I'm a little irritated about being sick.

    I'm lifting and not seeing results or gains so I'm less dedicated. My interest in Woman and my hobbies has slowed down. Everyone else around me is moving forward but I'm literally at a flat line. Maybe I need a break or clear my mind some how. I don't have many friends except co workers that I work with.

    I think I might take off after today. I want to see the light again and the freedom, but maybe there's a dense enough fog in the tunnel. It's very foggy.
     
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  2. Are those the words of a true sayian? I think not.
    This account is either hacked fake our just outright mad!

    Haha now seriously I think you will start feeling better any moment now stay strong brother.
     
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  3. Thaala

    Thaala Fapstronaut

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    I am sad and happy at the same time, I was 60 days without PMO, around the last week I started to get tired, nasal congestion, besides being irritated by being sick. I thought like that 60 days and I'm kind of sick and with an unhealthy mind.
    I failed, two or three times, thinking it would be better, I felt a depression, but I have faith watching my thoughts. I really don't know what happened to me, I don't know if it's the quarantine that I stay at home doing nothing left me like this or something.
    I wish it all would go away but it's been over 15 days and I don't feel like doing anything. If you improve tell me
     
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  4. My friend, this is what begins to count. This is where the fight begins, suffering is the nature's way of strengthening, before you can transform and shape into something better you need to suffer what matters right now is how you'll handle such suffering.

    Will you postpone the suffering by relapse, and prolong it in the long term, or will you suck it out, fight and emerge into something way way better. What you need is self discipline, and persistence motivation is temporary and is a byproduct of discipline.

    I myself have been in a rut of depression, mood swings, suicidal thoughts i had no will to do anything, i got anxiety attacks and i was insanely insecure i felt like this for at least 100 days, but now i am healed, i am okay, i didn't die and i am good.

    Remember, a smooth sea never made a skilled sailor.
     
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  5. I will try and start today but I have mild symptoms of being sick right now. I'll try listening to this subliminal pheromone booster and see if it has any effect. I have to go to the store but I have to distance myself from people. Hopefully I will be able to keep myself busy today... I'll try again my friend.
     
  6. FollowChrist

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    Repent your sins and turn to Christ so that He can heal your wounds. He alone can change your life in a way that no one else can. I'm writing this because I love you and want the best for you. Remember that Jesus died on the cross for all your sins as decribed in John 3:16: "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life." God bless you! Stay safe!
     
  7. A quote from someone else:

    "I think this is what Albert Ellis sees as the difference between self-esteem and self-acceptance. The former is based on how you rate yourself based on your performances and therefore highly conditional. While it might be a bit bold, Ellis called it the greatest sickness known to man or woman. Self-acceptance is about seeing yourself as okay independently of how you perform. It does not mean you can't rate your performances, but the idea is that these performances have nothing to do with your value as a human being."
     
  8. Prince6543

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    You have low self esteem because of just 1 fucking reason. You have not achieved anything in your life that made you feel good. You haven't achieved that dream body because you stopped lifting up. If you feel like doing something and giving it your best is not working for you, push yourself even more. Maybe some people are way ahead of you in life. But you have one thing that none of them does. And that's Experience. You have seen the worst. So it's just time to get up, and make your life better. NEVER STOP no matter how much you fail.
     
  9. Hadrian3

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    What the people around you say? Maybe they discourage you? Having some friends who believe in you and say "you can do it" can help.
     

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