Vicious cycle of inexperience

I think the problem you have is in your head and maybe you think too much about the situation. I'm twice as your age and I wish I did sleep with more girls when I had the chance back then. Here's what I think of life and this is my own personal experience: you have to experience sex with a lot of different people so you're familiar with what you want and what you don't want. I think marrying before the age of 30 is very risky because of the high divorce rate. As a lot of amazing women out there but are you guys compatible and all forms of life? For me I'm a morning person and when I get up in the morning I'm energized and I want to have sex. If the woman is not a morning person and I have been with a few, if you touch them in the morning they become really angry. Yet at 11 PM at night their vibrant and full of life and they want to have sex but I'm too sleepy to do anything.
If I was in your shoes I would try to have as much sex as possible. You're going to school, your young, and you have many attractive women around you in school. When she got a college women are not the same. Most don't have college experience, some have kids, there's a lot of crazies out there, and other stuff not worth talking about.
Whenever I think too much in my head I tell myself stop it. Because in reality it doesn't exist outside my head.
Good luck with everything and have a great time.

 

I'm reminded of a quote from the late 1990's movie American Pie where a main character was angsting about loosing her virginity

Vicky: I want it to be the right time, the right place...
Jessica: It's not a space shuttle launch, it's SEX

And it's true. It's "just" sex. From someone who lost their virginity at 27 and am now 42, I wonder if you are having the same problem I had. I think you are looking for someone to give you permission to have sex - not fall in love - just have sex. For me, it was being raised by women (my single mother and sister), where male issues were something to be ashamed of and tucked away. It was only until I was older when my mom was actually dating that she admitted a "high sex drive ran in our family". I wish she would have told me that when I was 18 and not 30 - I could have worn my sexuality as a badge of pride instead of being ashamed by it.

So, if you think I'm onto something, think SUPER hard about who you actually need permission from. And either consciously realize that you don't actually need permission from anyone at all, or have a stiff drink and ask straight out.