I was and maybe still am a virgin. I'm 23 years old. Tonight I visited a brothel and I could hardly get an erection. Only through a Blowjob was I able to get an almost fully hard on. I had intercourse but it only lasted about 15 seconds before I lost my erection. I had previously masturbated that day 3 times before I visited the brothel. I masturbate usually at least 3 times a day, usually looking at porn. I can still get an erection and orgasm without porn, but it takes more effort. I don't want to have erectile dysfunction. I want to be able to have sex properly. I knew about porn induced erectile dysfunction before and was debating whether or not I had it. Now I am convinced I do. I now want to give up porn forever and also masturbation. If I am able able to recover from PIED then I would like to masturbate maybe 2 to 3 times a week, instead of the excess I do at the moment. I hope in one month if I give up porn and masturbation I will be able to have sex a lot better and I plan on using a prostitute at that time again. I read some people take a lot longer than 1 month to recover. I grew up masturbating for many years as a young child and teenager without porn, and I can still get an erection and orgasm by myself without porn. Does anyone relate to this? This will be the first time that I have truly tried to stop porn and drastically cut down or preferably eliminate masturbation. I am serious about this.
If you are so serious about this.. Why did you masturbate 3 times and then go visit a brothel?? To me that just seems like a waste of time and energy and money.. I will tell you that I have used masturbation to relieve myself just so I wouldn't give in to temptation and use my money for sex and risk getting an STD. Couldn't you have resisted masturbating only for one day, as you planned on going to a brothel that day?? I'm not trying to condemn you but it just seems foolish to me
No I didn't plan on going to the brothel that day. It was a spur of the moment thing. I don't think I can give up masturbation. I've masturbated like since I was six years old, seriously, and everyday for many years. I'm going to give up porn though. Porn is what I think causes the most damage. The next time I use a prostitute I'm not going to masturbate the day before as well as the day I do it. Hopefully my erection should be better. I usually don't have a problem masturbating and orgasming without porn when I'm by myself. I live in Australia and prostitution is legal.
Yea man. If you are going to visit a brothel and spend your money on a prostitute you might as well make it enjoyable
This probably has nothing to do with ED and more to do with being highly nervous. The first time I had sex was when I was 16. I gave this girl I was seeing massages and every time I did I would be rock hard. After 6 months I gave in and when we fucked my dick was soft and didn't even feel that good and was like "this is what the hype around sex is all about?". A week later of walking away from club V we fucked again and it was absolutely amazing, I pulled out and shot it all over her face I won't ever forget her pissed off reaction lol.
